"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Casino apps... similar to swipe app dynamics?

DelayedGratification

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I found the above article interesting in light of my ill-advised move to buy a year of Tinder Gold last fall, which just ran out last week. As I've mentioned in the past, my "like" rate is something like one per week at best. One out of ten of those might be someone I'd swipe right on.

In what is surely an amazing coincidence, I've accumulated 12 likes in the week since my subscription expired. Almost like they're suddenly showing my card in other people's stacks or something. I don't get those numbers even when I occasionally take advantage of a free "boost".

That's enough to have me not get suckered again. The question is what does it take for me to delete the app altogether (along with the equally futile Bumble).

But the business model of getting people to fork over money in return for the low odds of getting lucky, but with no provision for a payout... feels really familiar.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean, those apps are designed to make money, right?
And they do what they can to take it from you.
 

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I found the above article interesting in light of my ill-advised move to buy a year of Tinder Gold last fall, which just ran out last week. As I've mentioned in the past, my "like" rate is something like one per week at best. One out of ten of those might be someone I'd swipe right on.

In what is surely an amazing coincidence, I've accumulated 12 likes in the week since my subscription expired. Almost like they're suddenly showing my card in other people's stacks or something. I don't get those numbers even when I occasionally take advantage of a free "boost".

That's enough to have me not get suckered again. The question is what does it take for me to delete the app altogether (along with the equally futile Bumble).

But the business model of getting people to fork over money in return for the low odds of getting lucky, but with no provision for a payout... feels really familiar.
At least on a casino app you could turn a small profit by playing freeplay and deposit bonuses only.
 
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