"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Case study- Who you don't want to be

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This is a "story" about a friend and his misadventures with women and life, no names are to be mentioned but basically, even for me it's clear to see who you shouldn't be.

This guy has had about 5 girlfriends this year and the maximum time he spends until he breaks up is about a week. He isn't a "player" or some sort of super stud, he is a idiot. He is confident and thats what gets the girls in the first place, he is not attractive at all, he is really annoying and likes to prat around however he gets the girls because of confidence. He doesn't last long because he is a human doormat, he has to be really helpful, even to the girls he isn't going out with! He goes after then helping them out as if they are completely incapable and then tells them "how much he loves them", but the most important thing here is that he feels he "needs" a girlfriend and completely reaks of desperation.

I think the two main things that stops people advancing is
> The doormat syndrone
> Lack of confidence

My example proves this, im sure a lot of you guys already know this but I think this is the most important point you can make
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being an idiot has a HUGE advantage with insecure girls which there are many. It makes them feel smarter and can use their 'boy toy' however and whenever they want. They'll only do what and who with they feel worthy of. My guess is that most of these girls he's getting are bar hos.
 
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Well no actually, they all seemed quite nice girls. One of them was pretty amazing but the others seemed really boring
 
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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Being an idiot has a HUGE advantage with insecure girls which there are many. It makes them feel smarter and can use their 'boy toy' however and whenever they want. They'll only do what and who with they feel worthy of. My guess is that most of these girls he's getting are bar hos.
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Well, what of intellegence?

I am exceedingly smart and talk in a refined vocabulary. Would that put girls off that I am (and know) that I'm smarter than them?

It hasn't been a problem to date, I think...
 
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