"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Case Study: When she says unprovoked, 'I will not do __' or 'We are not going to __'

Ease

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When she says or brings up something without you mentioning it, she is thinking about it. Even if it is 'i am NOT going to anal!!'. She is up for anal.

Background story:

I am making out with a girl in a secluded corner outside. I go to whisper into her ear, and she suddenly exclaims, 'I will not get on my knees!'. I am surprised to say the least, i was just going to talk some crap, i start to laugh. Within 5 minutes she is on her knees...

Application:

2nd date, going back to house together, she makes the statement, 'we are not doing it tonight!'. You are doing it tonight*

If you are the one to bring up the issue however, no may mean no**






* Unless you screw it up. Chuckle, act innocent and say ok.
** But not always.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I know what ya mean. One girl i was talking to randomly suggested a threesome with this other chick and me, and then she said she was just kidding. So i said, "No you're not, I'm down." Then she admitted she wanted to, and even texted the other girl and told her that we need to have a threesome.
 

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yeah. this has happened to me. girls like to say one thing and do another.

think about it this way.

she can't come up with the idea because it depicts her in a bad way. witch girl wants to be known for coming up with a 3some?

it's there way to let you know that they are thinking about it.

if i am making out with a girl and she says. " im not having sex with you tonight" i say. "we will see about that", and continue to make out with her. cos i know later on. we will be having sex. lol if she is in the mood that is. if there not your in troubble
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Exactly.

Earlier this year I hooked up with a girl from work.

Our first date ended up in heavy maake out (clothes on) on my bed.

After which she said (and sent me text) saying that she was definitely keeping her clothes on next time we met up.

I was like whatever.

So the next time we hooked up (2 days later), it ended up on my bed and she literally tore my clothes off me (I had to throw the shirt out because it was ripped down the back) and I f*cked her brains out.

Go figure!
 

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movie Spread, 21.min:

-You can tell me. I mean, it's not like you're getting any from me.

-When a girl tells you you're not getting any,
...before you ask,
...before you even try,
...you're getting some.
 

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Hahaha so true, I met up with this chick to have a smoke and chill and we ended up in her room on the bed dry humping and making out... She insisted we weren't having sex, she gave it up too easy the first time etc, I said I had no expectations but with a little bit of perseverance I got what I wanted.
 
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