"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Case study of **** test. Answers needed.

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I have always encountered cases when girls ask me this question. How do you answer?

(Via SMS)
Me : <Fluff talks...> I'm going to club tonight.
HB : Oh? Today is ladies' night. You go and pick up girls right?
Me : Pick up? Yah recently no luck. Only 5 One night stands this month. So when's my treat? <She owe me dinner>
HB : Next week will do. You are such a Jerk. Haha

Alright, did i answer the right thing? Or did she really think i am a casanova and made her insecure?

Comments and suggestions on how u will reply instead.

And what should i reply next now?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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charlezz said:
(Via SMS)
Me : <Fluff talks...> I'm going to club tonight.
HB : Oh? Today is ladies' night. You go and pick up girls right?
Me : Pick up? Yah recently no luck. Only 5 One night stands this month. So when's my treat? <She owe me dinner>
HB : Next week will do. You are such a Jerk. Haha
<Continued>
Me: Jerk? I'm always complimented for being really gentle.
HB: That's why your ex left you right? haha <I nv told her anything abt my ex before>

**** test after **** test...
Now what's the best reply...?
 

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AngelusPUA said:
You: I actually left my ex, but nice try babe......

or

You: Hey I'm busy right now, we'll chat later bye
I replied with "I actually left my ex, but nice try babe......" Seems a bit too serious and she never reply.. power seems to go to her side, zzz.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lol see that’s the idea behind it, it seems serious and she doesn't know If you are serious or not. It will keep her thinking about you...... you should have added a "lol" so she knew you were joking my bad.

Anyway she hasn't got the power dw just relax and let us know when she replies.
 

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charlezz said:
<Continued>...
**** test after **** test...
Hahahaha. That's the funniest line I've seen on this website for a while. :crackup: Sums up the PUA learning curve perfectly.

A friend of mine is going through this now, and I've just sparred with a chick in a similar way via e-mail. Stay with it dude! You may not get there, but at least you'll kept your dignity and control, plus gain some wisdom.
 

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"Pick up women? Women try to pick ME up!"
 

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charlezz said:
<Continued>
Me: Jerk? I'm always complimented for being really gentle.
HB: That's why your ex left you right? haha <I nv told her anything abt my ex before>

**** test after **** test...
Now what's the best reply...?
HB: That's why your ex left you right? haha
You: Who said she ever left? She's running around here somewhere with her girlfriend. I just wish they would put some clothes on already, it's distracting.

Relax bro, she's not testing you in a pi$$y way (this you have to look for), she's just being playful. It's called 'banter', girls love it.

Kuddos on the first reponse, nice job, but try to bust on her a little too, lol.
 
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