"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Case at school

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At my high school, we're not allowed to use cellphones even during lunch. Well I was texting at lunch and I got my phone taken away. I understand that and I assume the responsibility for my actions.

The next day the supervisor talked me. I have an iPhone and I set a lock on it. He asked me for code to go through my phone. This really ticked me off and I told him it's none of his business. He now refuses to give my phone back. He wanted to look through my phone to go through my pictures and other things and it's a violation of my right to privacy.

What should I do in this situation? I'm not giving him my code and I will fight to have my phone back. I'd just like your opinion on this, thanks! By the way, I'm only 17 years old.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you're 17 then you should just get your parents involved. Tell them you were wrong for having your phone out but that's not grounds for invasion of privacy. I'd be interested in knowing exactly why a faculty member needs to know what's on a student's cell phone. Unless you were phoning in a bomb threat or smuggling drugs, I'm hard pressed to come up with anything.
 

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Talk to your parents.
 

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Agree with Crimson. Absolutely no grounds to ask for your password, and go through your phone. Thats actually ridiculous im pissed off just hearing that. As for getting your phone back i am unsure how long school can seize property. Especially something that expensive.
 

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Kerpal said:
Well if they're within their rights to search you and your locker, etc, how is that any worse than searching your phone? lol.
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The whole idea around school searches is to protect the students. They can search your lockers and gym bags in the event you are under the suspicion of something. Maybe you're planning to harm some one else in the school or you're a drug dealer or working for one. Unless you're under suspicion for something of that magnitude, there isn't really grounds to go through something as insignificant as a cell phone. The whole reason around students not having rights is the fact that you have a large population of people in one area and there are lots of things that can happen. The same would happen if you were in an office and people suspected you of something criminal only there are more formal measures to be taken as you're dealing with legal adults. Juveniles don't have a lot of rights so formalities can be waived.

This is clearly a case of someone in authority exerting their power without cause. Again the op should just tell mom and dad and the thing will be done.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't give in man. Security tried this on me once. Most high school security I've dealt with are power hungry people who try to control you and push you around for no reason. I remember security at my school would screw with random kids for no reason and just bother people who were walking around giving them a hard time.

Anyways, I was asked for my passcode on my phone and I said why they needed it and they said it was protocol. I said let me see this protocol or I'm not giving them anything. Then I was threatened with "disciplinary action" for not following protocol so I was scared as hell but told my parents about it and my dad came in and went ape sh1t and got my phone back in a few minutes. How did he do it? He skipped over the security punks and went straight to the top: principal. Principal didn't want any trouble and asked security to give the phone to him.

The next time something happened I learned from this and went to the principal directly myself when I had a grading error my english teacher wouldn't change that would've given me a full letter grade lower. Yeah man, dont' give in. That's unreasonable search if they want your password.
 
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