"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Casanova Crew Open Lair Meeting In Long Beach, Ca.

Hydro

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What's up weirdos?

Once again my 'Crew is having another Open Lair meeting this Thursday May 21st.

We usually pack the house with 25-30+ heads. Every week we talk about different topics so you never know what you're gonna get.

Afterwards we all hit the field and sarge with one another, so finding a wing won't be a problem.

We have cats from really advanced all the way to guys still struggling with AA at these things, so feel free to pop your head in and sarge it up!!

PM me for details.

-Hydro
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon

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OTB said:
Do they really? They just seem like a bunch of obnoxious douchebags to me :p

actually CC gets it in, OTB, wish I could say the same for some other lairs/sites/guru's out there........
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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