"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cars and chicks?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LostAndConfused

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Cr1msonKing said:
Whats that suppose to mean?
A ricer is just a show car. Looks fast, looks sexy, is terrible in a real race....or its someone who mods the car with a bunch of "cool" looking add-ons that "optimize performance" yet they do the opposite, weighing down the car. They only make the car LOOK fast, and look good for girls.

I wouldn't worry about being a flipping ricer this isn't Tokyo f*cking Drift, to all those racing/drifting nerds who need a reason to hate on someone who buys a Ford Mustang (wow, the car weighs too much to race with, who gives a sh1t). Let a "ricer" get whatever the hell mod he wants, its his money.

Fact is, if YOU like the car, get it. Don't be tacky (purple tinted windows, etc), but if you have a sense of taste and you like your car, chicks will probably like it too.
 

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BMW all the way. Since I don't have the cash to throw for that, I'll stick with my Japanese rides.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I got another idea. What doesn't ur mate just buy an ordinary used car and invest the rest of the money? Its just my 2cents.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i have been around the world.. and irregardless of the place.. maybe except for Germany.. a BMW 3 series is a mad panty dropper.. 325i or 330i.. you will not go wrong with one of those in stock form.. any other car depends on the girls taste. a supra on my side of the world attracts a few with some racing blood... a Escalade or something tends to be for guys that easily splash cash and are pimpin big time.. so you know which girls will come for ya.
 

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Dude...your lucky if you can find a Supra in good condition and not modded to hell or at least taken care of and not driven hard.

I dont think the solstace should be considered since it look like crap lol, and dont get a honda please , youll be considered a ricer if you do. I think if you really wanna look into good cars then watch some Top Gear...my personal list if you do want to get a good car...
1. Barracuda (Love the decal)
2.BMW...M3 (Outta your price range but no other series can stand next to it)
3.Mitsu Evo X (My fav car since I am learning the mods to it)
4.Jurassic Park Jeep with logo(Come on you know youd go crazy if you saw that driving around!)

PS: The new Camro looks really really ugly sorta like the new charger....they should have left it the way it was but...alas they destroyed it.
 

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I've never once picked up a chick because I had a cool car. I've never had a girl say, wow nice car, can you take me for a ride then fvck me afterwards. Although I've had plenty of people glad I've had ANY car in college. I've spent upwards of $200 000 on vehicles including sports cars, trucks you name it.

Like another poster suggested, I would get a mid sized 4 banger that is cheap on gas & insurance unless his parents totally spoil him and give him everything. If that was the case, I don't think he'd be really asking you for advice cuz he likely already has great taste.
 

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I've always had ****ty cars. Still do. If I date a girl who has a pimping car...I'll just drive hers.
 

BMX

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He better invest in a good security system because that is a rough section of town.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Deadly_Assassin

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bmw_m3

Not because girls drop their panties as soon as they see them (that is case with Ferraris, Lambos or MV agustas) but they are some awesome cars to drive. Just read the reviews.
 

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Deadly_Assassin said:
If I was in ur mates shoes, I would stay away from all the ricers.  Their value drops everyday and its what most 12year olds dream of having.  Heres my list:
BMW E30 M3
69' Camaro
08' Dodge Challenger
Dodge Ram (pick-up trucks)
or even a Hummer
Range Rover
even a motorbike?
thats what i told him too. ricers just seem...cheesy to me.
 

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anyhow, he ended up getting a truck. which is cool i guess. i was pushing for a jeep though.
 

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I am definately buying another car this year for up to thirty grand later this year. I have a bit of time on my hands now to think about what i want to get. I'm excited after reading this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Assassin

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anyhow, he ended up getting a truck
good choice but only if it is one of those GMC/Chevy/Dodge pick ups and its a V8.
 

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i cant believe u fools forgot to say ford Mustang! and im getting one. Trading in my corolla for that
 

Gangster Of Love

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Just borrow your mom's station wagon, or the family minivan.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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