"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Carry a rose, Valentines day pick up!!!!!!!

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My friend's mum had a birthday and she was joking saying that i didn't get her anything and i was like ah i was thinking of getting u rose but thought it was to much, so i always say don't worry one day i will get it for u. Anyway today i was going my friends house and saw flower shop and i thought i know its a joke but what the hell. Anyway i get one rose and i am carrying it, i walk out a girl looks at me walk past a bus stop like all 15 girls old to young are just looking at me. I am thinking wow this gets a lot of attention especially when v day is coming up.

Anyway i go to bank and to counter and woman is serving.

HB: is that for me
RD: yeh sure throw in a few 50 bucks and they r all yours
HB: aw thats mean
RD: nah i am jk its for my boyfriend
HB: your boyfriend really what occasion
RD: ah its his birthday (shes laughing )
HB: o really
Rd: yes and u know what i knew what u were going to say before i even got up here lol
HB: haha o i c so u could have ur excuse all ready
RD: Nah seriously i got a bf lol (i then said i was kidding and told her real situation and she was laughing a lot) so what r u doing on valentines day
HB: o i am not sure yet (with a big grin giving me the eye, i know here i cud close, but i don't because i am on break from women at moment, so i just joke)
RD: ah well maybe i will come in later in the week and break it off with my boyfriend and take u out lol
HB: haha i won't tell
RD: lol well i got to go for now, but thanks very much (hands me my thing)
HB: NP BABY, u take care.

Guys i am not going to use this but i thought it may come in handy for u and definettly worth trying out, because the attention i got was amazing i think there was not one single woman i walked past who didn't look at me. I would really like to hear the results if any of u try this out or have tried it out, just get maybe a "friend" card, so they don't think ur some random cheating guy though lol. I remember in college guy brought rose for girl, but before he gave it to her nearly every girl asked him "o is that for me". It shows romance and that u r also wanted elsewhere, but bit of mysteriousness at same time. With v day coming up though i am sure those traits r shown out massivly.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJs dont have to use props or tricks in order to get positive attention from women.
 

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Dude its like wearing a shirt that easily blends in the crowd or something stands out. Yes i know its not about props or tricks and if a guy had no game to back it up he wouldn't get very far. But having something that gives u a bit of edge and stands out, whats wrong with getting even more positive energy. But i can understand what ur arguing, but to me this seems like an interesting experiment, especially if u know how to use it right. If u soley rely on objects for game yes ur not a dj, but if u experiment and have fun for ur own amusement it dosn't really make u any less of a man. I would always use things to start convos spontanuously all the time, chick cud have funky sunglasses, i could have some complicated physics book and go the most partyiest girl there on a train and try and get her to explain the theory of fission lol. Has long as ur having fun it dosn't matter.

I know u can go deep on this, but i just thought it was interesting.
 

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i did it once, but it was the day before valentines day for a girl in my class. ***** didn't show and i had all these girls eyeing me and asking if it was for a girl.
 

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nice job man.
there is no rule that says DJs cant use props...
thats retarded..
being a DJ is not a job!! that has limits on what you can and cant use..

hmmmm not a bad idea, the rose, with valentines day....
i do know that flowers get ALOT of female attention, coz i think women kinda wonder wow! some lucky girl is going to get this..why is it not me?who is she? etc. so..

good job
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ is a lifestyle. i dont know about some of you guys but i dont need to walk around with flowers and candy to get alot of female attention.
 

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yeh it was just something i noticed and just thought u guys could do with it what u want with it. And j rock who said anything about candy lol.

when i worked i use to have my name as valentine instead of my name, it gives bit more character and makes u stand out and i would get asked on it 6 times a day. The rose is just a nlp and i am sure u guys can get the attention anyway, its just something to play around with FOR FUN.

And i am sure at a halloween party some people don't need to dress up to get the attention or at a fancy dressed party, but they do it for FUN and something different.
 

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And i am sure at a halloween party some people don't need to dress up to get the attention or at a fancy dressed party, but they do it for FUN and something different.
walking around with a flower is NOT FUN to me lol
 

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J Roc said:
DJs dont have to use props or tricks in order to get positive attention from women.
Real DJ's don't care what you think, he can use props if he wants. Ur an idiot...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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