"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Carrot Top

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Those are what? 50s? I am doing 50s. I only do dumbbells, my fvcking bench is about to break, sh1tty 250 lb danskin. Carot top is fvcking ugly, but he's good with women, it just shows you that looks don't matter. I should know better, I'm a little on a fat side, and it's never about looks, althrough I think I'm pretty.

I've watched carot top on richie and cathy lee, or whatever that show is at 9 am on FOX. Basically, I think he is into PUA heavily. He is good with women, as if you'd think he was bad, but now he really has it under control.
 

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Ya, he definitely gives off a PUA vibe.

Just cus he's doing 50lbs in that picture doesn't mean he can't do more. Ugly or not he's pretty ****in big.
 

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Big? No way. He gives off an impression that he is big, but that is only because he is low fat. I'm bigger than him, both taller and wider.. On that Richie and Cathy lee show, he was not bigger than cathy lee. But sure, once you start loosing fat, even 1 %, you come off as bigger.
 

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what weight is he? weird thing is his abs look sh1te but he's ridiculously vascular :S
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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djSlvt said:
Big? No way. He gives off an impression that he is big, but that is only because he is low fat.
Bingo! And who's to say that he didn't have any chemical help?
 

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Now that it been mentioned, it looks like he barely has a 3 pack in there. I bet he is using an ab machine. Best ab work out is done on the floor, weighted or weight free. Broom stick twists, standard crunches, alternate bicicle, oblique crunches, leg raises, that's all you need. When done weight free you can get some noticible definition, when weighted, ohhhh, if you can handle it..... At his low fat levels (I'm guessing less than 10%) he should have those visible without much work out, maybe he's not even working those, or they been cut out due to a cancer.
 

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He went from super thin to big(er) and ripped.

Sounds like a prime candidate for 'roids.
 

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I love it. Some fella makes a remarkable transformation and all you guys can do is put him down, say he's using only the 50's, that he had chemical assistance, ****e abs etc etc. Even if he did use drugs he still had to put the hours in and eat the food, it's not THAT easy. And if you guys think it is, try it for yourselves and see.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I love it. Some fella makes a remarkable transformation and all you guys can do is put him down, say he's using only the 50's, that he had chemical assistance, ****e abs etc etc. Even if he did use drugs he still had to put the hours in and eat the food, it's not THAT easy. And if you guys think it is, try it for yourselves and see.
hey what I said wasn't meant as a put down - the guy does look like he has ridiculously low BF (that's a positive thing for me) although his abs look really bad for that BF level - I think I'm in the same position, my left side abs are absolutely sh1te but my right ones are average...


and yeah why assume he took roids? it's not like a bit of chemical assistance is cheating anyways, if you're not taking them that's your perogative...


anyways congrats to the dude on the transformation...bit of hair dye and he'll be awesome :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djSlvt said:
Now that it been mentioned, it looks like he barely has a 3 pack in there. I bet he is using an ab machine. Best ab work out is done on the floor, weighted or weight free. Broom stick twists, standard crunches, alternate bicicle, oblique crunches, leg raises, that's all you need. When done weight free you can get some noticible definition, when weighted, ohhhh, if you can handle it..... At his low fat levels (I'm guessing less than 10%) he should have those visible without much work out, maybe he's not even working those, or they been cut out due to a cancer.
OK then Arnold, post your pics.

You talk the talk....
 
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