ok so im basically trading in my life as a DJ for about a year to visit the caribbean while working on various boats for many months, possibly ruining any chance of sex for a long time, but anyways im just curious if anyone has been there and what there thoughts were
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Why would working on boats ruin your sex life?
It's always hot. You'll sweat, alot, so make sure to keep hydrated. Good luck!
It's always hot. You'll sweat, alot, so make sure to keep hydrated. Good luck!
ill be working on the boat while its at sea while it sails back and forth from florida to the caribbean, and you DO get some time to yourself in the caribbean, i dont even know why i made this thread really i guess cuz im nervous about the huge lifestyle change and constantly thinking over my decision
familyguyfan
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Yeah, just pick up girls while you're docked.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don Pablo
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Enjoy the port hookers! 
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Seriously, between the locals in both florida and the islands you should be up to you neck in hot p*ssy and that's not including the hot tourist girls who go there for spring break and what not. count your blessings man, I'm thinkin about moving to florida from vegas for those exact reasons.
Bible_Belt
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I have spent some time in the islands, mon. It be irie, lol. You drink rum or the local beer, which is always better than American beer. They dance all the time, to "whine" is to grind your hips dancing. Always end a conversation with "ok." The men talk a lot of ****, but are not really that violent. Beggars will get aggressive, but be an Alpha male and they will look for easier prey. Everyone smokes pot. You will probably be ok buying and smoking it, unless you are in Mexico, which loves its corrupt sting ops. Do not under any circumstances try to smuggle weed back into to the US. Buy your own snorkel gear before you go. Kickboards are great if you don't swim well. Sneak a bottle onto the cruise ship to save $. Don't wear shiny jewelry or brightly contrasted swimwear in the ocean - it attracts sharks and barracuda. And wear a condom when you hook up, people are promiscuous and stds are rampant.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Whatever you do, watch out for the ghost pirates!! Or are they pirate ghosts?