One of the reasons I'm not having kids. Nobody with two ounces of common sense can tell me this LEGAL procedure makes sense.
Our society uses children to beat down a man through the Family Court. In terms of actually having children being FATHERED today with a strong male role model in their life, nobody has two ounces of care about that though.
Yet, there are still guys on this Forum that argue with me (saying I'm just being too negative) with saying our society is totally feminist and gynocentric which is designed by it's original nature to "oppress" men.
But hey, I'm free. My vasectomy is getting done (just been busy, need to schedule it, planning it for July) and I'm NOT getting married. You know what that means? I'm fvcking FREE. I see it as you only get one life that you are 100% sure of (who knows what happens when you die), so why not be FREE while you are living it?
This whole concept of having kids to leave a Legacy is also BS. Most kids are created today because two people were fvcking irresponsibly and a kid (or two, or three, or four, or five) were created OUT of that irresponsible activity. Then once the kid(s) are here, they shuffle trying to make it work. That's why you hear these stupid a.ss parents making statements like, "When I looked into my baby's eyes, that motivated me to do MORE in life," why the hell weren't you already DOING MORE in life before you had the kid?
So most kids are created irresponsibly, OR they are created because the parents don't want to be "lonely" later on in life (the kid is a tool for their entertainment or for them to boss around as slaves), OR because the chick wants to get more welfare benefits.
Very few kids are actually pre-planned before birth with a crib, a trust fund, two loving parents with two great incomes, and all that shyt setup BEFORE the kid(s) are even conceived.
So don't allow these "so called well meaning parents" to guilt you into having children if you (like me) choose not to. If you want to be FREE, be FREE.
