"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Caring what others think?

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Rint

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People believe you shouldn't care what others think. I believe thats sorta true, that works for some people other people probably not. Think about it who are you trying to seduce women, and what they think of you directly affects how they treat you and your chances of dating them. Also if you love yourself and respect yourself thats great, but people might not, because your personality could be annoying or your just mean and you may even be oblivious to it. So i take what people think as constructive critism. So you can either ignore me and not care what others think, which is fine i'm not saying it's wrong, or you can care what others think, but the key to caring what others think is to not let it get to you. You cant let it stop you from taking risk or following your instincts.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You are right, Rint, but this has been talked about a lot in the past. Don't caring about what others think means that you shouldn't let other people rule your life and your choices. Constructive criticism is another thing and is to be accepted.
 
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