"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Caring what others think?

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Rint

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People believe you shouldn't care what others think. I believe thats sorta true, that works for some people other people probably not. Think about it who are you trying to seduce women, and what they think of you directly affects how they treat you and your chances of dating them. Also if you love yourself and respect yourself thats great, but people might not, because your personality could be annoying or your just mean and you may even be oblivious to it. So i take what people think as constructive critism. So you can either ignore me and not care what others think, which is fine i'm not saying it's wrong, or you can care what others think, but the key to caring what others think is to not let it get to you. You cant let it stop you from taking risk or following your instincts.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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You are right, Rint, but this has been talked about a lot in the past. Don't caring about what others think means that you shouldn't let other people rule your life and your choices. Constructive criticism is another thing and is to be accepted.
 
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