"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Career women

00Kevin

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The more I get to know career women the more I just can't stand them.

Here are my reasons

1. They are way to stressed out from work and can't keep up with the presure. I don't know how many times I heard my last girl friend whine about her boss. She took things too damn seriously.

2. Most only have careers because they don't want to end up divorced and alone with no job. In other words, they are already planning for the divorce.

3. They fail to show respect for how well you provide for them.

4. The more they work and try to be a provider the less attractive they become.

5. They always try to be the boss and have the false notion that there are two heads of the family or relationship. no... there is only one head and it is the man.

All you modernists, can say what you will, but I would much rather have a woman for a wife that cooks for me and takes care of the kids.

For a relationship, just give me a girly girl who looks sexy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want a girl with a chip on her shoulder and a law degree.

Just kidding.

Interesting point of view, kevin.
 

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00Kevin,

Good points! Is there anyone who actually do like career women?
 

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Oh, the career woman thread again,...

Yawn,..:eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
The more I get to know career women the more I just can't stand them.

Here are my reasons

1. They are way to stressed out from work and can't keep up with the presure. I don't know how many times I heard my last girl friend whine about her boss. She took things too damn seriously.

2. Most only have careers because they don't want to end up divorced and alone with no job. In other words, they are already planning for the divorce.

3. They fail to show respect for how well you provide for them.

4. The more they work and try to be a provider the less attractive they become.

5. They always try to be the boss and have the false notion that there are two heads of the family or relationship. no... there is only one head and it is the man.

All you modernists, can say what you will, but I would much rather have a woman for a wife that cooks for me and takes care of the kids.

For a relationship, just give me a girly girl who looks sexy.
They are called Career Women for a reason...
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Hey Kevin, I bet you're just intimidated by them!:rolleyes:

Haha I agree fully with your post.
No, I feel sorry for them actually.

There are:

1. women who take their work home with them.
2. and women who take their home to work

I'm not kidding you about point number 2. I know one girl that basically has a kitchen on her desk. I can make something to eat there.
 
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