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Guest
where do you think the best place to go for carear advice or like a counselor... Our college counselor sucks.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well finding one that spells career as career is a good start. Just kidding, seriously if your college sucks at counciling the best places to try are online like monster.com. Thats because you can take an online personal inventory test and it will allow you to see what kind of jobs you might be interested in. Follow that up by checking out some job fairs and interviews. Also sites like monster have resume builders which are good and you can pay to have a professional look over it for a small fee and these places also give tips on how to interview.
-Grey Fox
-Grey Fox
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Bachelor in S*cking C*ck /pwns all
Centaurion said:Bachelor in S*cking C*ck /pwns all
And u would know ?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Want career advice? Never get into something because of the job market or the money, you will be miserable. Do you have a hobby? Do you enjoy your hobby? Can you make money at that hobby? Answer those three questions and you'll have all the career advice one would need.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Have you thought about what you want to do, or are you just waiting for someone to tell you what you should do?
I'd also keep in mind about "jobs that won't suck...too much."
Of course, if it didn't suck then no one would be willing to pay you for it.
I'm pursuing a computer science major, but I'm also considering accounting as a second major since I'm fairly good with math, so I figure that job wouldn't be hard, though it'd probably be boring.
Just don't try to get into a job that will not fit you at all. For example, I don't know how long I can tolerate little kids, so teaching in elementary school is a bad choice for me.
As far as money versus "what you like," I say try to balance them. Not just jobs, but overall "what do you want to do?" Will these things take money? Is there something you might want to do? If so, will it take money? I'd err on the side of more money, since more money means more opportunities.
Ben
I'd also keep in mind about "jobs that won't suck...too much."
Of course, if it didn't suck then no one would be willing to pay you for it.
I'm pursuing a computer science major, but I'm also considering accounting as a second major since I'm fairly good with math, so I figure that job wouldn't be hard, though it'd probably be boring.
Just don't try to get into a job that will not fit you at all. For example, I don't know how long I can tolerate little kids, so teaching in elementary school is a bad choice for me.
As far as money versus "what you like," I say try to balance them. Not just jobs, but overall "what do you want to do?" Will these things take money? Is there something you might want to do? If so, will it take money? I'd err on the side of more money, since more money means more opportunities.
Ben