"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
Abnigh9
Master Don Juan
In this case, so is grammar.
And also, I do run 3-5 times a week. It just gets so boring sometimes, even with the music, that I want to give it up. And being so out of shape/fat, I can't even run that fast or that long. Basically, I lack motivation... 'Cause even though I've lost 15 pounds so far, even THAT is not enough motivation for me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Abnigh9
Master Don Juan
Cut down on the Carbs, eat none after lunch. You can eat a LITTLE chocolate a day, but keep off the junk.
Do this for a few months, that is all it takes, if you dont have motivation, use WILL POWER!!! IT is a VERY powerful source!! Once you do this, you will be happier than ever before. U will totally transform if you loose enough weight to get you down to "normal". Good luck, stick with it, and watch your life change. Dont be lazy just because you cant control yourself, your mind is your most powerful weapon!