"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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car wash guy got a gf/wife and he does this job lol low end

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joe45

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me and my guy friend was talking about these guys at my work place- car rental place.
hes a asian canadian grew up and born and raised in canada-good english and all , he wen to bcit tech school for auto tech, but didn;t pursue a career with it -he said he didn;t like it anymore, he is like 29 now and has been working as a car wash and vacuum guy for 7 years. funny thing is hes short like 5 2 , i heard he is married and his is also asian canadian and they have a baby comin soon.

the funny thing i really wondering was why the heck would a girl date or even bother marrying a guy that is doing a service agent job(wash cars, vacuum cars) for 7 years.
i mean there are so many asian chinese guys especially in vancouver,bc who go to ubc and have high end degrees in accounting, engineering, law, doctorate, pharamacy...etc and why the heck did she settle for this short guy and not only that but doing a dead end low job.i mean why don;t he even do somthing better, or move up. do accounting and be an accountant-its more respectful career than telling your gfs friends and family and friends of freinds your a service agent cleaning cars lol come on. that job is just a joke

imagine . ok my husband is a lawyer, oh my husband is a accountant and your Linda what does he do-ah he works washing ppl's cars and vacuuming them . lol.embarassing hey. those are the kind of jobs you do if your like out of HS not when your like close to your 30's. i mean even at age 23 and doing car wash job is low end already, you should be doing something better.

i was suprised that such a short guy even for a asian guy and also low educated with no degree and doing such a low end job as a car wash /vacuum guy could even have a gf or is married and having a baby coming soon. lol . must be a girl who can;t find a guy who is higher end or a girl with weird thinking

my guy friend said unless she knew him for a very long time, or maybe his wife is a chubby big girl and can;t find anyone else -that she is with him. but like we both think-come on a guy in his 30's doing a service agent job. come on

even as a asian guy you have to be better and do better than the white guys to succeeded b/c most to all the managers are white guys so why they going hire a aisan guy if the white guy is just as good.


lol those car wash guys just have no goals and ambiton whatso ever. ok. how can you be japanese or chinese cbc and be doing car wash for 8 years since the age of 21 . lol come on. do better
how do you now more about life lol . hahah examples
everyone discriminates ppl's jobs. you got the low end car wash guys who make low wages, and no brains and are low class. and you have the medium class the teacher, accountant clerks, IT supports and the high class like engineers, doctors, certified accoutants....
hey i'm chiense asian what its all about class, status, money and what you do. and yes what you drive. what do you drive lol. hahah you ever see a cbc chinese other than flip drive a junker car ah no-why we have face face
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you have a crush on this guy or something? You seem to post this exact same thread every couple of weeks.

You know, for someone who claims to have such high class and education, you sure need to learn basic grammar.

You're pathetic and I feel sorry for you.
 

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Joe there is something wrong with you. Are you obsessed with this guy? You posted the same two threads in a row about him. Are you jealous that he has a girl and you don't got ****? Honestly get off his balls and focus more on you. Anyways you shouldn't talk you aren't much younger than him and you work there too.
 

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Honestly get off his balls and focus more on you. Anyways you shouldn't talk you aren't much younger than him and you work there too.

ROFL I didn't even see that!! Talk about calling the kettle black!!
 

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Damn man. you sound like a jealous hater. Real talk. You also sound racist against asians.

Worry about your life. My father told me once, Bill Gates has a wife, and the janitor at your school has a wife, don't worry about women, worry about what you want to do in life. They never stop making women.

Post about your life instead of some other man's life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SharinganUser said:
Do you have a crush on this guy or something? You seem to post this exact same thread every couple of weeks.

You know, for someone who claims to have such high class and education, you sure need to learn basic grammar.

You're pathetic and I feel sorry for you.
HAHAHAHAH sooooo true...

Yeah farrrk leave the guy alone...if he's happy doing what he does, and is able to support his wife and family..what's the problem??

Leave the guy alone and mind your own sh*t
 

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hah, joe, have you ever just heard of someone being cool? By the way you're talking it seems to be out of your reality that a woman could like a man for who he is rather than his fvcking job and money.

Sort your shyt out.
 

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Son, you DO realize that if he OWNS the car wash, he is most likely a millionare?

Car washes are some of the most profitable enterprises there is, and you don't need much education to operate one. He could save a ton of money on labor by working at the car wash himself instead of hiring someone else.
 

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It's always your jealousy talking.

Since you are Chinese/Asian and from Canada and since I'm Chinese-American, it's safe to say I know that you are probably a good, diligent boy following the life your parents have laid out for you and probably have good prospects/ job offers for your career down the line.

But the problem is that you probably don't have a girlfriend otherwise u wouldn't be posting this sh it. U probably have problems meeting women and since you were such a "good" boy you wonder why aren't all the girls flocking to you, WHY CANT THEY SEE THAT YOU'RE THE GREAT CATCH NOT THAT SHORT-ARSE LOSER ASIAN GUY? Right.

My answer is work on yourself and don't compare yourself to others. P*ssy is p*ssy and there's plenty more where that came from. And another thing, NEVER rely on your career and money to get you girls. You'll never get p*ssy by bragging and flashing, just a nagging wife.
 

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DarthAngel707 said:
It's always your jealousy talking.

Since you are Chinese/Asian and from Canada and since I'm Chinese-American, it's safe to say I know that you are probably a good, diligent boy following the life your parents have laid out for you and probably have good prospects/ job offers for your career down the line.

But the problem is that you probably don't have a girlfriend otherwise u wouldn't be posting this sh it. U probably have problems meeting women and since you were such a "good" boy you wonder why aren't all the girls flocking to you, WHY CANT THEY SEE THAT YOU'RE THE GREAT CATCH NOT THAT SHORT-ARSE LOSER ASIAN GUY? Right.

My answer is work on yourself and don't compare yourself to others. P*ssy is p*ssy and there's plenty more where that came from. And another thing, NEVER rely on your career and money to get you girls. You'll never get p*ssy by bragging and flashing, just a nagging wife.
well thatss the thing i think most woman would if had to choose

guy 1-does car wash for his job and most likely won';t do anything more, has been doing it for 8 yrs plus. has no education but mechanic school,but didn't pursue it. rents his house
guy 2-univ educated with a bach degree, is a civil engineer for a big engineering firm. owns a hosue and a nice car

i mean who if your a girl who would u pick if ur a educated univ degree woman ., come on
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well,what do you want,dude? You want his wife to leave him just because of where he works? If she divorces him to where he's single,will him being alone finally "make sense",and make you feel better? Who knows,maybe this guy's father taught him about women and relationships,or maybe he's a member of a forum like this and he's learned what it takes to attract women and he used his skills to find a wife.
You're a man. You have the mind of a male.
You keep trying to put yourself in the shoes of a woman to look at things from her point of view,but you have no idea about how the female mind works. A LOT of things that women do that seem crazy to us makes perfect sense to them. This is the what,the 2nd or 3rd thread you've made about this guy? What's the deal,man? Instead of running him down,why don't you find out what he did to get the woman. I mean,if working at a carwash is a ticket to singlesville (in your opinion),and he still managed to get a woman/wife,he must be doing something right.
 

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There is one girl who isn't a gold digger!!!
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Get off this guys d!ck and do something more productive instead of writing a novel about him.

Atleast this man has a job. If you haven't noticed either. The economy sucks and it's not as easy to get a job. But, I guess theres always gonna be haters like you.
 
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