"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pakwah

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for the last couple days, sometimes when i get into my car the face plate needs the time reset.
I thought nothing of it until i went to start my car and it was completely dead.
Even when we tried boosting it i did not get one glimpse of power....
Some say it could be the battery (its a year old) the alternator or a blown fuse...
??
its an old ford...tempo i think....
its a POS but i driving it till the end of winter then putting it out to rest

sorry i double posted...was not on purpose...please delete one!!! thanks sorry
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ENIGMA16

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Is the battery bulging? Are the terminals loose?

Do the lights turn on when you try? If so, do they dim when you try starting the car?
 

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Also, check the voltage regulator. They are very cheap to replace. If its bad, it fvcks your whole electrical up, and it seems like the battery or alternator.If your battery is a year old, there might be a warranty on it. Autozone will check your alternator, and battery for free. Lights dimming, or brightening when you go faster is a sign of alternator problems.

oh, and check the battery fluid level if it is the kind where you can.
 

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i had the jumper cables directly on the connectors, not even the battery and nothing...not even a click or even a light at all
i mean if it was the battery..certainly a boost would have got things going no?
someone also mentioned a fuse..?? what gets me is that the deck was showing signs of lost power cuz when i would park and start the car for say 8-10 hours, when i got back in i would have to reset the time and stations. so even when it was sitting the car stereo lost power a few times before it just went dead altogether
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Since you had that little warning sign prior to the car dying, it sounds pike battery. Check all the connections and clean them with wire mesh. If still doesn't work then replace the battery.

Could be starter alternator but try the easy solutions first.
 

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Quiksilver said:
If still doesn't work then replace the battery.
NO

DO NOT REPLACE THE BATTERY!!!

It's only a year old so it's still new.

Also don’t bring it to a battery place, they will give you bull$hit & try to sell you a new one (they will see that you’re ignorant an take advantage)

It could be flat, if so, charge it over night.

Check the fuse box for any blown fuses

Honestly no one can rely tell you until intense observation of the car physically.
 

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I would start by removing the battery terminals, cleaning them and replacing them.

I recently installed a new battery and a few weeks later I went to start my car. I got nothing. Turns out I didn't tighten a the terminal connection enough. It felt tight and looked good but wasn't.
 

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Pakwah said:
i had the jumper cables directly on the connectors, not even the battery and nothing...not even a click or even a light at all
i mean if it was the battery..certainly a boost would have got things going no?
someone also mentioned a fuse..?? what gets me is that the deck was showing signs of lost power cuz when i would park and start the car for say 8-10 hours, when i got back in i would have to reset the time and stations. so even when it was sitting the car stereo lost power a few times before it just went dead altogether
That sounds like wiring problems. See if someone will let you hook their battery up to your terminals just to see if it works. if it doesnt, your wiring system needs to be checked thoroughly. This can be a nightmare, so I'd have a pro do it.
 

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Hi Friends.

Some nice fellow has recently plowed into the back of my car while i was waiting at a red light. His car was a nice big SUV. My car, while functioning perfectly, is now considered a writeoff which is quite irritating.

As a result im starting to think about buying a new (well, second hand) car. I probably have a budget of 5g's which i know aint much, but yeah, quite poor atm. A mid 90s corolla is what comes to mind at the moment. The problem is, im not really experienced in this area as my last car was bought off a family friend.

Any of you guys ever gone private? Used car dealerships? Other? Had any luck with private? What things have you done to ensure the car aint going to fall apart? Yeah pretty much screwed without a car so i need to get the ball rolling on this kinda soon. Any help is very much appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pakwah said:
i mean if it was the battery..certainly a boost would have got things going no?
No.

It could be either of two things, either your battery is dead dead, or alternator is not charging your battery. Parts shops usually charge your battery for free. Go there and have the battery charged and checked over. Another thing you should do is clean battery terminals, parts stores sell a brush that you could use. If you selling car soon you could buy a used battery from a junk yard, they usually have stores with pulled parts, mind the size.

If it's not battery, it's your alternator.

If you take it to a mechanic this could easily run you $150 + if not $300. If you get your own battery at parts store it will be around $70, from junk yard $25. That is if it's not alternator.

If it is alternator and you know how to replace it, you can have yours rebuild or replaced with a rebuild one for around $100.


As far as the boost with dead battery, you should make sure battery terminals are clean, and make sure cables are attached well. Then you run the other car for 20 minutes at 2,000 rpm. After 20 minutes raise rpms to 4,000 and start your car.
 
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