"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Car and home doors?

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Anyone still open and close car doors for chicks anymore and let them in first? (Not just public doors) What about dropping a chick off after a night out or next morning. Do you wait for the chick to get in her house safetly or just take off driving like a lunatic knocking over mailboxes while sniffing the passenger seat?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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lets be honest here - If ya dont catch the seat while its still warm - then its not worth sniffing. :up:
 

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The car door, no, a building door, yes. You get a better look at her ass that way.

Also easier to kick her the fück out! :crackup:
 

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VladPatton said:
The car door, no, a building door, yes. You get a better look at her ass that way.

Also easier to kick her the fück out! :crackup:
That and if the chick not show any femininity then either building door no
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Anyone still open and close car doors for chicks anymore and let them in first? (Not just public doors) What about dropping a chick off after a night out or next morning. Do you wait for the chick to get in her house safely or just take off driving like a lunatic knocking over mailboxes while sniffing the passenger seat?
I always get the passenger door of my car for my dates, or really any woman I'm driving with. And of course I always hold doors for anyone. And yes, of course I walk my date to her car or door. How would you feel if she was mugged? I did have one girl complain that she hated when I got the door for her in 2011. DB.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Do it once and see how she reacts because every girl is different. If she says "thanks" and means it and then returns the favour to you in a currency you understand, you keep doing it. If she expects it and does in turn, not act ladylike, then forget it. Chivalry wasn't designed for women (long story), but a feminine woman who can play her role deserves to be treated like a woman. Kinda rare in this day.

Today's woman is independent and she might see you opening the door in a negative light and punish you for doing it in ways you might not easily see. Her actions about it, will define whether or not you will continue to do it. Push and pull on that one.

However, even if you don't do it each time, if you're there first, be a decent human being and do it. But going out of your way....only if she does...as is preens herself up special for a date and so deserves it.
 

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Purefilth said:
lets be honest here - If ya dont catch the seat while its still warm - then its not worth sniffing. :up:
+9999999999999999999999999999999
 

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I do.

If she didn't like it, there wouldn't be another date.
 

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I'll always open my girls car door for her, it's fun to feel her up while she's trying to get in the car.
 

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If I'm dropping anyone off at their place I give time for them to get inside, that's just courtesy lingering from the days when not everyone had a cell phone and it really sucked to find out you've dropped your keys in the car after your ride has driven off.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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