"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Captured by a Cougar: Field Report

everywomanshero

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SO this past weekend I took a short field trip. Only two women were involved, both are in the process of divorcing. This is a bit of a deviation from my standard operating procedure because there is more chance of the women hounding me as relationship material. O well,

ANyway I found the cougar online 2 years ago but nothing came of it. I IM'd her a few days ago and spent about 30 minutes trading sexual fantasies. It became clear to me this woman was ready to get nailed like a ****ing board and I was the construction worker. I planned to meet up with her a few hours later.

Anyway we went to some bar and spent a couple of hours just lounging there with her friends. Normally going to a bar with an older woman is an unforgiveable sin. What used to happen is she would see someone she knew and feel embaressed about being with a guy a lot younger. But a lot has changed in recent years, and it is now much more fasionable In fact, she was damn proud of her cougaring skills. This is where guys always think they have to impress the chick. Fact is I hardly did anything at all. On the way back, I think she realized I was just gonna leave and suddenly stated that I needed to come in. My sleeping with her was important to her ego and in fact I had set a trap earlier that evening to make sure she persued me viciously.

During our stay at the bar, when other guys were trying hard to "win" over the women folk. I stated that I had to go get my phone because my friend would be calling who was getting divorced (which was true). I texted said friend a few times saying she had wanted to come down and meet us and was not asking if I could stop by later. I also revealed that this woman was in her upper twenties. Actually the scarce details set more of a trap than if I had layed more out. She automatically thought, "What am I just some old hag, he's gonna go fvck that young b&tch insteada me, ha, Ill show him".

In the bedroom she mentioned something I said during our chat, we being dominate in the bedroom which obviously piqued her interest. After the second time we ****ed she also commented on how I bet I was glad I didn't go to that young b&^ch instead. For some reason she didn';t respond to oral which was ok but as I humped her ***** I suddnely felt a gushing wetness. Awww the elusive squirting orgasm. IMO much better than a ****oral orgasm because these are rarer and I can count on 2 hands the number of women I've seen who experience them. The thing is when a woman can have them, they tend to have them with some regularlity. Second humping failed to produce another, but I got another nut in there anyway and she screamed for me to fill her ***** up lol I love a woman who isn't afriad to talk nasty
This is a can't lose game. People are unpredictable in the casual sense, but predictable in the correlational sense. That is *most* women respond *most* of the time to certain triggers but there's never any garunatee. However, this is different than PUA thinking because it's more holistic and far less specific. I could've done any number of things differently and gotten the same response. There was no micromanagement, but in fact it was all macromanagement with little thinking and doing almost nothing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Veridin

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Congrats on getting a one-night stand. Although the word "cougar" sounds silly, since it is just a way to get around having to say "middle-aged woman."

And, women in their upper twenties are "cougars" now? What are you, sixteen? :)
 

everywomanshero

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the woman was a little over 40 but looked good, the other woman I was texting was late twenties (who I had banged before so she was low priority). My ideal target age is about 25-40, but it just depends on the specific women and how they look/act
 

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Does anyone know of venues where to older women hang out? There are bbw parties, gay and lesbian parties. What about older women who love younger men?
 
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