"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Captain Save a Ho

DreamAgain

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Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder.

If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later.

You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly snowball into becoming whipped and subservient to her.

It started off as little things here and there with my girl. But over time it grew and grew... and before I knew it, I was constantly doing her favors and helping her out with the stupidest sh1t. She was a lazy idiot and I was blinded by oneitis.

You give these hoes an inch nowadays and they'll take a mile. But in the end it was my fault for allowing it, lesson learned and I went no contact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder.

If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later.

You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly snowball into becoming whipped and subservient to her.

It started off as little things here and there with my girl. But over time it grew and grew... and before I knew it, I was constantly doing her favors and helping her out with the stupidest sh1t. She was a lazy idiot and I was blinded by oneitis.

You give these hoes an inch nowadays and they'll take a mile. But in the end it was my fault for allowing it, lesson learned and I went no contact.
When I assist or buy or do anything for a woman, it's because and only because it amuses me to do so.

If it doesn't amuse me even a single bit, I won't do anything.

That's how I basically do anything with any women, family included.

Edit: So even if you know they r using you, that's okay, because you had ur amusements. It's like paying for the movies and pop corns.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wifehunter

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The best, is when you become one of her many servant boy toys. lolz!:p

 

R.U.G.

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Ain't that for sh!t sure. If they have something you want, go for it. If not, pass. After all, that is what they do. Don't beat them, join them. The only difference is that our stock actually gets better with age. Most of them, not so much. Liz Hurley is an uncommon and a rarity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wifehunter

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Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder.

If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later.

You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly snowball into becoming whipped and subservient to her.

It started off as little things here and there with my girl. But over time it grew and grew... and before I knew it, I was constantly doing her favors and helping her out with the stupidest sh1t. She was a lazy idiot and I was blinded by oneitis.

You give these hoes an inch nowadays and they'll take a mile. But in the end it was my fault for allowing it, lesson learned and I went no contact.
Sometimes they ask you to do things for them to get control over you. It don't take too long either. You have to peep the type of person she is. If it's someone who bends over backwards and does tons for you, it's okay to do some things for her.
 

skinnyguy

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Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder.

If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later.

You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly snowball into becoming whipped and subservient to her.

It started off as little things here and there with my girl. But over time it grew and grew... and before I knew it, I was constantly doing her favors and helping her out with the stupidest sh1t. She was a lazy idiot and I was blinded by oneitis.

You give these hoes an inch nowadays and they'll take a mile. But in the end it was my fault for allowing it, lesson learned and I went no contact.
This happened to me with my oneitis last year. It was the Latina Snapchat *****. She ended up living at my place and wasn’t fuhking me. She was homeless. I ended up leaving her on the street and never contacted her again
 

The Duke

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You always have to have bitches on the side.

Otherwise you get whipped.
How about actually addressing the internal problem instead of medicating? Strong minded don't need bitches on the side to keep their oneitis at bay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When you're aware of this, you'll stop yourself in your tracks to say no, just out of principle. I did this yesterday, and explained I wasn't a door mat, she understood. The thing is, girls will always understand when you put your foot down and solidify some frame - they secretly enjoy it i'm sure.
 

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How about actually addressing the internal problem instead of medicating? Strong minded don't need bitches on the side to keep their oneitis at bay.
Yeah, but you still want regular sex don't you?
 

wifehunter

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How about actually addressing the internal problem instead of medicating? Strong minded don't need bitches on the side to keep their oneitis at bay.
Yep, just plenty of cool stuff to do. Keeps me occupied, anyway!!!
 
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