"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ricard78

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Ok so this chick i have been hanging out with for a long time leaves for the summer yeterday.

To cut a long story short i met her at the start of University and we got on amazingly at the time and up untill last week i was a AFC (technically still am untill i complete the bootcamp) so i have not tried to make a move on her, the problem is we have slipped into the friends mold. Yesterday i gave her a big hug goodbye then i hook up with her on MSN when she is home. She started by saying she will miss me more than i know, she then continued on to explain she i not very conident herself and she wants to change that. I can see she is screaming out to me but every now and again she says things that i dont understand.

e.g she said "I used to think i was a real sexy biatch"

i replied "you still are"

i then got "your not too bad yourelf ;)

but after that she wrote something crap like, your a really nice person.

Am i just been a fookin fool.

Feel free to rip me apart if you think i am.

________________________________Women: You can't live with them, and you can't get them to dress up in a skimpy little Nazi costume and beat you with a warm squash
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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christz

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i think your over anaylizeing this waaay to much the girl gave you a compliment back, take it at face value and roll with it
 

Q-Pid

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Yeah - when you compliment someone (male or female) their first instinct is to compliment you back. It levels the playing field.

She's pretty much telling you you're a nice guy. Watch out.
 

Ricard78

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Mybe i am over analysing it too much, it just seems like she blows hot n cold.

Mybe i hould make a move when she is hot.
 
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