"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ricard78

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Ok so this chick i have been hanging out with for a long time leaves for the summer yeterday.

To cut a long story short i met her at the start of University and we got on amazingly at the time and up untill last week i was a AFC (technically still am untill i complete the bootcamp) so i have not tried to make a move on her, the problem is we have slipped into the friends mold. Yesterday i gave her a big hug goodbye then i hook up with her on MSN when she is home. She started by saying she will miss me more than i know, she then continued on to explain she i not very conident herself and she wants to change that. I can see she is screaming out to me but every now and again she says things that i dont understand.

e.g she said "I used to think i was a real sexy biatch"

i replied "you still are"

i then got "your not too bad yourelf ;)

but after that she wrote something crap like, your a really nice person.

Am i just been a fookin fool.

Feel free to rip me apart if you think i am.

________________________________Women: You can't live with them, and you can't get them to dress up in a skimpy little Nazi costume and beat you with a warm squash
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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christz

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i think your over anaylizeing this waaay to much the girl gave you a compliment back, take it at face value and roll with it
 

Q-Pid

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Yeah - when you compliment someone (male or female) their first instinct is to compliment you back. It levels the playing field.

She's pretty much telling you you're a nice guy. Watch out.
 

Ricard78

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Mybe i am over analysing it too much, it just seems like she blows hot n cold.

Mybe i hould make a move when she is hot.
 
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