“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A couple months back I was referred through a link in someone's sig here to a post and thread from a guy, which detailed why some men are drawn to dangerous women, damaged goods, the walking wounded, etc. instead of stopping being stupid and going for balanced girls.

It was one of the best posts I've seen here, and since it was fairly unique it was even better. I really want to find it again. I've searched repeatedly with many terms and I can't find it.

So can anyone help me find it. It was a very large post, linked to in someone's signature here, may have been the authors, I don't recall.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some guys/girls think that they can "fix" or "save" a person that they want to get with. Don't bother.
 
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The post I'm looking for went far further and deeper than that. It gave 4 or 5 different motives behind the man who chases dangerous women. I'd cite you some examples from it, but I can't remember any; that's why I want to track it down again. I only remember I read it and it blew my mind, it nailed this topic so accurately. Not only was it theoretically applicable to myself, equipping me for the future, but more to the point it was realistically applicable to friends of mine who appear to suffer from it, and I wish to be able to clearly define their problem by being able to refer to the post once again.

Otherwise, I tend to come up against 'she's really hot though', when going over it with them, and can go no further.
 
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