"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can't tell if this online girl is interested

teddy

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Exchanged a couple messages with a HB. Her initial response was pretty lengthy; after that her responses were short. However, she gave me her number.

Not really sure what's going on here. Is there anything to read into this? I mean, she did give me her number.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GS750

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She gave you the number...so use it. I really don't know what else to say. Call her up, chat for a little bit, set up a meet.
 

Iceberg

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Here's a rule to remember - Online girls don't count as girls until you meet them.

Don't even bother allowing yourself to get confused or perplexed by what she does. Her responses got shorter? Maybe because she doesn't feel like writing a novel to some guy she never met, and would rather meet you in person. Or maybe she's not interested. Whatever. Who knows.

You have her number? Set up a date. If (or when) you meet her, you'll have a better grasp of what to make of her.
 

Arthy

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Ask her on a date, two possible scenarios:
Accepts - interested
Flakes - not interested
it's simple.
 

Maximus Rex

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Y'all to Start F*ckin' With Harry's Podcasts

Go to www.stoplosingwomen.com and listen to "Episode 111 Weak vs Strong Buying Signals From Women, (With Examples,)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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