"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seems to me i cant seem to attract the chicks. I mean i think i got a pretty good personality going. Im ****y funny, i bust their balls alot. Im not horribly ugly, im talented at music and guitar. But it seems i always am "the *******", to girls that cant take a little joking around. Very few actually cant. But the thing is i never get girls to have a "crush" on me or anything like that. I just cant seem to get it down right..... i just feel like givin up sometimes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Swede54
Seems to me i cant seem to attract the chicks. I mean i think i got a pretty good personality going. Im ****y funny, i bust their balls alot. Im not horribly ugly, im talented at music and guitar. But it seems i always am "the *******", to girls that cant take a little joking around. Very few actually cant. But the thing is i never get girls to have a "crush" on me or anything like that. I just cant seem to get it down right..... i just feel like givin up sometimes.
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I tink you can read the DJ bible again and find out in the weapons of mass seduction how to act, behave in an attractive character.

You can tell me something i don't know maybe i can be of help on that matter.
 
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Yeah attraction is key. I'm not so convinced ****y&funny and busting their balls a lot is the best way to develop attraction. It's too easy to come across wrong and can be too hard for a lot of people to get it right. Now some types of C&F might actually be good, but not the ones that make fun of your target. I've had girls open me and I used C&F and they ejected quicker than if I would've remained silent even.

Only thing I can suggest is to keep practicing while slightly changing your technique to see what works best. Keep trying to close. Isolation is important. Sometimes you just got to be in the right place at the right time, so that you meet the girl that is interested. All you need then is fluff talk and you'll be able to close. Have you read Gunwitch method, it's in the DJ bible.

I can certainly relate with what you're saying, it is really tough for a lot of guys. Before giving up why not just give up on caring about the outcome and instead just try to befriend girls and see where that takes you. Well I hope some of this was useful.
 
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A few suggestions...

Originally posted by Swede54
Seems to me i cant seem to attract the chicks. I mean i think i got a pretty good personality going. Im ****y funny, i bust their balls alot. Im not horribly ugly, im talented at music and guitar. But it seems i always am "the *******", to girls that cant take a little joking around. Very few actually cant. But the thing is i never get girls to have a "crush" on me or anything like that. I just cant seem to get it down right..... i just feel like givin up sometimes.
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Firstly... Do you have a picture of yourself that you could maybe post for us to see what exactly you look like?

Secondly... If some girls cant take your "jokes", then don’t joke around TOO much with them.

Now... Do you FLIRT with girls? Do you get their number and then ask them if they wanted to meet up with you after school or wateva? Do you compliment them? Do you make then ENJOY your company? Do you take the place of the Alpha male? Do you use any kino with girls? ... You have to take all of that into account, and if u are not doing those things, then NOW is the time to START doing those things, and if you do, I’m sure that your "game" will improve.


Laterz...
 
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