"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so i was at a college party tonight and this girl was totally on my jock. ready to bone and just waiting for me to ask.

we talked, we danced, and talked more. but i just couldnt pull the trigger. whats up? anyone else ever have this? im sitting here feeling like an idiot and wondering to myself why the hell i didnt bone this girl..

fyi, ive never had a ONS, had 2 gfs before but its been awhile.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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garruk said:
so i was at a college party tonight and this girl was totally on my jock. ready to bone and just waiting for me to ask.

we talked, we danced, and talked more. but i just couldnt pull the trigger. whats up? anyone else ever have this? im sitting here feeling like an idiot and wondering to myself why the hell i didnt bone this girl..

fyi, ive never had a ONS, had 2 gfs before but its been awhile.
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Well you say you had 2gfs before.... This girl is NOT going to be your girlfriend dude! You just want to f*ck her! Just get everything out of your head and keep the "screw this, what the F can go wrong?" in your head all the time. Just party do weird **** you never did before and just go for it.
 
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It took me a full year of troubleshooting this issue to realize it's something you can't work out with gimmicks or routines. You just have to finally be honest with yourself and realize you're a pvssy about it so when the time comes again you actively decide not to be a pvssy and have some balls and go for it. In fact that's sorta what I tell myself in my head when I feel the moment is there and need to act on it.
 
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Nutz said:
It took me a full year of troubleshooting this issue to realize it's something you can't work out with gimmicks or routines. You just have to finally be honest with yourself and realize you're a pvssy about it so when the time comes again you actively decide not to be a pvssy and have some balls and go for it. In fact that's sorta what I tell myself in my head when I feel the moment is there and need to act on it.
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EXACTLY. Don't be a PVSSY. That's what ALLl this is about. The rest is just details.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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