"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can't make it up.

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I know we're not supposed to take Game/TRP too literally, but then you have conversations like this one. That bi-polar flip in her last two messages... goddamn does Game work, but goddamn do I dislike what I see sometimes.


Her: Great, then we can be friends lol sound fun?

Her: No pressure, we can go out together, go dutch, sounds pretty perfect M.

Me: Sounds cringingly Platonic, I might pass.

Her: wow, what did your EX do to you? I'm not fighting for a guy lol I'm a catch especially in a town like XXXXXX. My offer stands unless you have women tearing down your door stud.

Her: You seem like you'd be fun company. Your an assh*le like me :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you have any interest in her as a plate or LTR (hopefully just a plate for now), always take the offer to go out as 'just friends'. Then what you do at the beginning of the night is tell her what a great friend she is and tell her all about the other plates you are seeing. That's what we men do, correct? We talk to our 'friends' about the tail we hit? Her hamster will implode. Then later in the night after her hamster is defeated, make your move and fvck your 'friend'. I've had multiple LTRs start off as a date of 'just friends' and by the end of the night had my c0ck up inside my 'friend'. By the next day there was no further mention of being 'just friends' ever again.
 
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Nice work.

$hit test passed. To break it down:... I might pass.

A straight forward no fvcks given response. basically a "eh, I'm good, I've got better things to do" without coming across as being butthurt. Her hamsterwheel started spinning and she did a 180.

David Deangelo use to talk about this one. He goes about it another route: when a woman states that she just wants to be friends, you basically agree and amplify. That gets them thinking as well and flips it around on them: "wait, he only wants to be friends with me?"
Edit: just as @logicallefty stated above:up:
 
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Oh-ho! Apparently someone has realised being a ball-busting b!tch might not be the best strategy to win me over.

Her: Nice chat M. Sweet dreams when you get there.
 
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logicallefty said:
If you have any interest in her as a plate or LTR (hopefully just a plate for now), always take the offer to go out as 'just friends'. Then what you do at the beginning of the night is tell her what a great friend she is and tell her all about the other plates you are seeing. That's what we men do, correct? We talk to our 'friends' about the tail we hit? Her hamster will implode. Then later in the night after her hamster is defeated, make your move and fvck your 'friend'. I've had multiple LTRs start off as a date of 'just friends' and by the end of the night had my c0ck up inside my 'friend'. By the next day there was no further mention of being 'just friends' ever again.
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Not bad, not bad at all.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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logicallefty said:
If you have any interest in her as a plate or LTR (hopefully just a plate for now), always take the offer to go out as 'just friends'. Then what you do at the beginning of the night is tell her what a great friend she is and tell her all about the other plates you are seeing. That's what we men do, correct? We talk to our 'friends' about the tail we hit? Her hamster will implode. Then later in the night after her hamster is defeated, make your move and fvck your 'friend'. I've had multiple LTRs start off as a date of 'just friends' and by the end of the night had my c0ck up inside my 'friend'. By the next day there was no further mention of being 'just friends' ever again.
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Yes, from the looks of that Convo, @Wilko is going to find himself in the same 'platonic' situation by the end of the 'Dutch' date. LOL. We want to hear how it goes @Wilko :)
 
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