Can't get this **** out of my mind.

[Kidd]

Long story short, my ex-girlfriend of 3 months ended up cheating on me about 2 months ago. Without hesitation, I dumped her. I told her I didn't want to be friends, talk to or have anything to do with her anymore. She calls, tells me how much she ****ed up, was in tears, etc., so I decided to keep talking to her occasionally.

She kept telling me how much she hated the guy, etc. Now they're going out.

My problem is, I can't get this **** out of my mind. I blame MYSELF for starting to get AFC-ish in the relationship and treating her *too* good. As for the girl, I have lost all respect for her, and she is not important anymore. I just need to get this **** off my chest and out of my mind.

 

[dannowillbookem]

ahhh thats my afc story. at least youre seeking help, much better than i did.

cut it off. find something to get pissed at her for, really sit there and think about it. now tell her you dont want to talk to her anymore when she tries to talk to you next, and act tired of her being around. you dont have time for this shiit, you cant let the reminder of her and her cheating ass just hang around. she'll probably fall for you again, in which case you have a fucck buddy which you can treat like shiit and have her comng for more, or she'll leave you alone. both are good.

most important, go meet new people and make sure she knows about it. dont flat out tell her, just make sure you talk about it around her.

 

[kev me723]

ooorrr, you could just totally bullsh*t her, f*ck her, have a ton of fun, using her the whole way, and never actually go out with her again. One way gets her pissed off and makes u miserable, another way gets you a piece of ass, and it's make up-ass too since she knows she f*cked up. hah but do whichever one you want.