"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cant get over stupid ex

ese_sleeper

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so about 2 years ago a had a ltr with some girl for about 3 months, everything was good but then one day i decided to dump her for no apparent reason. then 2 months later i started missing her so then to get her attention i trespassed into her school one night with some spray cans and did a huge mural with her name (probally the dumbest thing ive done). so anyways the next day she saw it and she sent me a message through myspace with her phone number and saying that we needed to talk, so i called her and told her that we should talk face to face so i went over to her house and she basically told me that she has moved on and we should just be friends and after that i just stop talking to her.

now a year has passed since then and i still cant stop thinking about her, ive tried dating other girls, finding new hobbies but i just cant get her out of my head. do you guys think if i try one more time i could get her back? or is it not worth it to try anymore?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexLefty

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Give it up man..no girl is worth this much stress and headache. she wants to move on? then fine, move on! But you actually have to. You say you've tried dating other girls..but I personally doubt how hard you've been trying. you gotta realize she's not the only girl on the planet..there are MILLIONS of others, of which I can guarantee most of them are A LOT better than her.

It will pass with time, but if you want to speed it up, really try getting another girl friend, or even better, invest yourself into something you really like. Whether that be a new sport like bowling, or something like building model airplanes or something, just try to find something that really interests you.

good luck
 

Nino-Tk

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Damn lol! Man you will have to excuse me for laughing,ah what a classic and yeah man that was the dumbest thing you have ever done..damn..Ok onto the serious bizz, dude why subject yourself to so much pain? I mean she said it, she has MOVED On, you should the same...and ofcourse you are gonna miss her because you just let go of something that was a part of you,so accept that and go dating.
 

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The best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone.
 
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