"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can't get hard **** in gay club?

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went to the gay club again tonight. made out with one older woman who was there with her husband who the husband was bi. didn't have a hard **** interacting with her or anybody. must of had my **** on 4 or 5 different girls grinding having fun dancing. had a couple of gay guys approach me and the one at the end of the night made me feel a bit uncomfortable until i locked eye contact with the cougar and she came over and danced madeout with me. not once did i get a hard ****. had another older hooker also try and kiss me full tongue after i was just been nice to her because she was out alone dressed up like a old ***** lol. told her she can come dance with me if she wants after a short conversation at the bar.

with the limp **** i didn't drink one beer all water and the reason i go to gay bars is because the dance scene is sick. club is easily the best laid out in town.

are you guys getting full on boners in clubs? i'm not getting anything in a gay club or straight club and just end up going home to wank to nina hartley or brandi love or ava adams. and even when i'm jerking of to those girls they look like women i've met in past and i'm thinking of those women not the pornstar. i've also had boners to the some of the ugliest women you could imagine and just interacting with them enough i get a boner while talking to them. not usually on the first time interacting together either.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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went to the gay club again tonight. made out with one older woman who was there with her husband who the husband was bi. didn't have a hard **** interacting with her or anybody. must of had my **** on 4 or 5 different girls grinding having fun dancing. had a couple of gay guys approach me and the one at the end of the night made me feel a bit uncomfortable until i locked eye contact with the cougar and she came over and danced madeout with me. not once did i get a hard ****. had another older hooker also try and kiss me full tongue after i was just been nice to her because she was out alone dressed up like a old ***** lol. told her she can come dance with me if she wants after a short conversation at the bar.

with the limp **** i didn't drink one beer all water and the reason i go to gay bars is because the dance scene is sick. club is easily the best laid out in town.

are you guys getting full on boners in clubs? i'm not getting anything in a gay club or straight club and just end up going home to wank to nina hartley or brandi love or ava adams. and even when i'm jerking of to those girls they look like women i've met in past and i'm thinking of those women not the pornstar. i've also had boners to the some of the ugliest women you could imagine and just interacting with them enough i get a boner while talking to them. not usually on the first time interacting together either.

Did you try any gay sex? Just to see if you got a boner?
 

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So you surround yourself with old women and gay guys then get surprised that you dont get a boner?

You should try to be an incel, I heard they are becoming more and more popular by the day.
 

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went to the gay club again tonight. made out with one older woman who was there with her husband who the husband was bi. didn't have a hard **** interacting with her or anybody. must of had my **** on 4 or 5 different girls grinding having fun dancing. had a couple of gay guys approach me and the one at the end of the night made me feel a bit uncomfortable until i locked eye contact with the cougar and she came over and danced madeout with me. not once did i get a hard ****. had another older hooker also try and kiss me full tongue after i was just been nice to her because she was out alone dressed up like a old ***** lol. told her she can come dance with me if she wants after a short conversation at the bar.

with the limp **** i didn't drink one beer all water and the reason i go to gay bars is because the dance scene is sick. club is easily the best laid out in town.

are you guys getting full on boners in clubs? i'm not getting anything in a gay club or straight club and just end up going home to wank to nina hartley or brandi love or ava adams. and even when i'm jerking of to those girls they look like women i've met in past and i'm thinking of those women not the pornstar. i've also had boners to the some of the ugliest women you could imagine and just interacting with them enough i get a boner while talking to them. not usually on the first time interacting together either.
This is your second post this week about your experiences in a gay bar. Is there something you would like to announce to the straight world ?
 

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So you surround yourself with old women and gay guys then get surprised that you dont get a boner?

You should try to be an incel, I heard they are becoming more and more popular by the day.
there was other younger girls there i grinded on and couldn't spot giggling when i was looking at them. those girls just went home with their gay friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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there was other younger girls there i grinded on and couldn't spot giggling when i was looking at them. those girls just went home with their gay friends.
so you come here to say you are jealous? so... jealous from the girls or from the gay dudes?


can you please look for a better venue, and before you ask no, a steam room is not a good place to look for woman
 

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so you come here to say you are jealous? so... jealous from the girls or from the gay dudes?


can you please look for a better venue, and before you ask no, a steam room is not a good place to look for woman
I went to a straight club and so as i entered the room two girls were looking at me and giggling and I went onto the the dancefloor next to them and straight away 2 guys come in a put their arms around the girls. I'm looking into their eyes when they are hugging their guys but the club was all african's and I was the only white guy in there and I don't want to get too out of line here.
 

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So you frequent a gay bar, but the women don’t give you a boner and you can’t get women. You go to a straight all black bar and can’t get women. Do you ever go to any regular clubs? You are severely lacking a plan of action…
 

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So you frequent a gay bar, but the women don’t give you a boner and you can’t get women. You go to an all black bar and can’t get women. Do you ever go to any regular clubs?
yes pulled a asian girl out of regular bar the other week. The problem is I get tons of interest but converting all that interest into bangs is the toughest part.
 

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yes pulled a asian girl out of regular bar the other week. The problem is I get tons of interest but converting all that interest into bangs is the toughest part.
Well it won’t happen at a gay club. Only Lesbians and gays there unless a curious straight couple or two attends.
Re-examine you interest detecting radar if you think it happens in a gay club for a straight man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well it won’t happen at a gay club. Only Lesbians and gays there unless a curious straight couple or two attends.
Re-examine you interest detecting radar if you think it happens in a gay club for a straight man.
Perhaps the girls just want to dance with me because I'm fun slapping their asses and they think I'm gay so they allow it. Im basically dancing around the dancefloor holding my crotch moving my arms, making stupid dances, putting my finger between my zipper and girls are jerking my finger off in motion. but nothing more will ever happen and building proper relationships isn't possible. I did have one girl tell me to get my game on in the gay bar when she was hanging next to me at the end of the night the other week. We were both just looking at each other in the eyes.
 
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The one thing I wouldn’t personally do if I went single to a gay bar is hold my crotch…
 

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The Last thing I would personally do if I went single to a gay bar is hold my crotch…
I'm actually surprised that I don't get that hit on by huge amount of gay guys. I have more girls approach me and try and bump my ass or dance near me. All the gay guys just watch or dance awkwardly and maybe right at the end of the night like tonight one had the balls to approach but that was when i wasn't with any girls until the cougar walked over. There's a few fun gay bi or straight guys who knows who dance with me and try and befriend me. One was taking over his shirt and a girl licked it right up and there was red lipstick all over his nipples. He was more trying to connect with girls rather than guys.
 

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I'm actually surprised that I don't get that hit on by huge amount of gay guys. I have more girls approach me and try and bump my ass or dance near me. All the gay guys just watch and maybe right at the end of the night like tonight one had the balls to approach but that was when i wasn't with any girls until the cougar walked over.
Congratulations, you’re a lesbians new gay best friend / dancing partner. If you’re looking for serious women, go to the places they’re at…
 

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Congratulations, you’re a lesbians new gay best friend / dancing partner. If you’re looking for serious women, go to the places they’re at…
All girls who approach guys are gay/bi? Even in non gay venues?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WTF???

Are you sure you're not SoSausage reincarnated?
I mean that would totally make sense then with that screen name.

SoSausage = Gay Bars...

Just sayin...

Billtx49, I request you pull his IP address and see if it matches SoSausage. LOL :rofl:
 

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Billtx49, I request you pull his IP address and see if it matches SoSausage. LOL :rofl:
Already did that, different countries. Definitely hear you on your similar mindsets comment though …
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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