"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cant get any more than a kiss

jd1828

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I met this girl and have been hanging out with her for about 3 weeks now. She is great, actually girfriend material but there is one problem. She has got to be the most inexperience, closedminded, and prudish person Ive ever met. She has only had one bf and had never had much luck with guys. We kiss all the time but I cant get her to make out with me. For all I know she has probably never done it before. She's a virgin and says she want to wait till she is married, although she's not religous. Wont drink or party with me either. She has said several times that she really likes me so thats not a problem.

Is there any good steps to follow to try to get her open up a little more. I have never had a problem like this. Most of the time I can close a girl in a week or so. Ive already put 3 weeks into this girl and Im starting to think about just giving up but I guess Im always up for a new challenge.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tkman

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These girls could take long time .... you will never get anywhere with her unless she TRUST you ..... the magic word here is TRUST ! Start building trust with her .....
 

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you're getting kissed, stop complaining
 

00Kevin

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You need to start using Kino. Use those hands.


I usually have my hands around a girls tities before I even kiss her.

You just have know how to get close to a woman.

Kissing is a hard thing to do.

Focus on simple things.

and don't forget

women are weak

they can't resist a mans hands on them. they will let you. trust me
 
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