"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can't get a read on this girl wanna help me out?

nmartinez12443

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Got a girls number on Friday texted her Sunday night.

Me: Hey this is Nacho we talked briefly at Excalibur Bar.

Her: Hey, how are you?

Me: i am good just got done playing soccer.

Her: Oh yea, fun stuff. (NOT GOOD SO FAR)

Me: yeah it was fun, hot but fun. are you on facebook?

Her: Actually im not, im really not on the computer enough so i never set one up. I think I should though

Me: Thats a good thing actually don't get on. Do you know any good places to go out on Wednesdays. (NOTICE I AM ALWAYS LEADING CONVO, BAD)

Her: Haha ok. Umm Bayou G is a good place for wed. The jizzpops play, their an 80's cover band and their awesome!

Me: sounds good ill check it out and ill probably see you and your friend around denver (I QUIT)

Her:I think you'll like them. And we'll be around. Text me sometime when your out, we can meet up :) (THIS IS WHAT THREW ME OFF)

ME: hey i checked out the band they actually are awesome and i don't know your schedule but do you want to something beforehand and walk from my place and c them.

Her: Well i have to be at work super early in the mornings, so i usually don't go out on week nights. Maybe another night? (here we go.....)

Me: how about skip the bar and i get you home at 8:30

Her: Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaybe. Where do you want to go?

Me: Its a secret but it rhymes with Gini Molf and its super close to my place.

Her: Haha, we will see im just usually so exhausted after work. But if not during the week maybe the weekend. (HMMMMMMM)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nmartinez12443 said:
Her:I think you'll like them. And we'll be around. Text me sometime when your out, we can meet up :) (THIS IS WHAT THREW ME OFF)

(HMMMMMMM)

This is when stop that texting crap and get her on the phone. That was also a perfect opportunity to end it on a high not, then ring her up in a day or two.
 

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fair point gansta, should of ended with that. So your saying theres a chance, no desperate, just want to know if I showed waste my time.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
fair point gansta, should of ended with that. So your saying theres a chance, no desperate, just want to know if I showed waste my time.
Off course there is a chance, albeit, small. The only person who doesn't have a chance is a quiter, and that you are not, I hope.

Well, the beauty of it is that if you wast any more time, it doesn't have to be much. Just call her up this week, and invite her to get together. That can take as little as less than 10 minutes, and if she's not interested, you no longer have to waste more time. That's the beauty of elminating the ones with low interest, you get to move onto to others.

Be ready for her to say she's busy, etc. just make sure that she counter offers you and suggests a different day, otherwise you can just forget about this one.
 
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