"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backseatjuan

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Guys, my size 3.5 or so inches. I use thin okamoto condoms, 0.003, and when I'm with a girl I can fvck for hours and can't ***. When she sucks, same. With some girls I can cvm, with other can't.

Today went to a pro, and fvcked her for an hour, she was mad cuz I can't cvm.

Damn........ I thought if I fvck for hours it's a fvcking plus, and women enjoy it, versus you cvm in like 5 minutes, minute man. WTF was she mad about that I was fvcking her for so long????

Is this a problem?

For me sex is in my head, for me to cvm my mind has to be turned on the girl, and when it's just a job for her, I like just do it. I don't know man, I fvcking don't know wtf is this and if this is a problem, and why a girl would be mad that I couldn't cvm.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Iceberg

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If her vag hurts, just slide it in her butt. I hear they like that.
 

pdx1138

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casually slide your thumb in her ass while you do doggie to make sure she's up for having it put in there...

hopefully you won't pull out a plumb LOL
 

Mantis Toboggan

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pdx1138 said:
casually slide your thumb in her ass while you do doggie to make sure she's up for having it put in there...

hopefully you won't pull out a plumb LOL

Maybe he's into that kind of thing.
 

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Woah - why all this a$$ play talk? Not all women actually even tolerate anal, and even if a woman does, anal should only be attempted if she knows just WTF is going to happen to her. Uninvited and / or unplanned anal could actually warrant some serious, serious pain for her... Not cool.

Anyhow, to the OP - most women are used to a guy cumming, and delight in the sensation of a throbbing, pumping, ejaculating (not sure what I'm allowed or not allowed to call it on here). If she finds the guy can't ***, she may sense that there is something wrong, thus dampening her pleasure, and make her concerned.

But really, it's okay. Try to chill. If you find that you are concentrating too much on her pleasure during sex, try to distract yourself by really getting into it with your fantasies, or keeping your mind on her, whatever works for you and really gets you going. BUT overall, just don't put too much pressure on yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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metoo

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If she's a pro, she wants to get several johns an hour, not one.
 

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She can't get several an hour, it's my hour, I do what I want. I guess she wanted to chat or something. But not in john situation I've witnessed women actually help to cvm, of course they don't know what to do, but they always suggest different things. So this brings me to why I started this thread: why the hell do they care that I cvm, don't they want multiple orgasms, don't they want fvcking till the break of dawn?
 

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backseatjuan said:
Yep! And I can please women like you wouldn't believe, they have to scream and beg me to stop! :rockon:
Well I have to say you are one of the more entertaining trolls on this site.

Though it's funny that you claim women get mad at you and find sex a chore with you and in another post you claim they beg and scream during sex.

C'mon at least get your fake story straight before you make another post.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lol
 
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