"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can't finish sex

backseatjuan

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Guys, my size 3.5 or so inches. I use thin okamoto condoms, 0.003, and when I'm with a girl I can fvck for hours and can't ***. When she sucks, same. With some girls I can cvm, with other can't.

Today went to a pro, and fvcked her for an hour, she was mad cuz I can't cvm.

Damn........ I thought if I fvck for hours it's a fvcking plus, and women enjoy it, versus you cvm in like 5 minutes, minute man. WTF was she mad about that I was fvcking her for so long????

Is this a problem?

For me sex is in my head, for me to cvm my mind has to be turned on the girl, and when it's just a job for her, I like just do it. I don't know man, I fvcking don't know wtf is this and if this is a problem, and why a girl would be mad that I couldn't cvm.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iceberg

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If her vag hurts, just slide it in her butt. I hear they like that.
 

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casually slide your thumb in her ass while you do doggie to make sure she's up for having it put in there...

hopefully you won't pull out a plumb LOL
 

Mantis Toboggan

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pdx1138 said:
casually slide your thumb in her ass while you do doggie to make sure she's up for having it put in there...

hopefully you won't pull out a plumb LOL

Maybe he's into that kind of thing.
 

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Woah - why all this a$$ play talk? Not all women actually even tolerate anal, and even if a woman does, anal should only be attempted if she knows just WTF is going to happen to her. Uninvited and / or unplanned anal could actually warrant some serious, serious pain for her... Not cool.

Anyhow, to the OP - most women are used to a guy cumming, and delight in the sensation of a throbbing, pumping, ejaculating (not sure what I'm allowed or not allowed to call it on here). If she finds the guy can't ***, she may sense that there is something wrong, thus dampening her pleasure, and make her concerned.

But really, it's okay. Try to chill. If you find that you are concentrating too much on her pleasure during sex, try to distract yourself by really getting into it with your fantasies, or keeping your mind on her, whatever works for you and really gets you going. BUT overall, just don't put too much pressure on yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she's a pro, she wants to get several johns an hour, not one.
 

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She can't get several an hour, it's my hour, I do what I want. I guess she wanted to chat or something. But not in john situation I've witnessed women actually help to cvm, of course they don't know what to do, but they always suggest different things. So this brings me to why I started this thread: why the hell do they care that I cvm, don't they want multiple orgasms, don't they want fvcking till the break of dawn?
 

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backseatjuan said:
Yep! And I can please women like you wouldn't believe, they have to scream and beg me to stop! :rockon:
Well I have to say you are one of the more entertaining trolls on this site.

Though it's funny that you claim women get mad at you and find sex a chore with you and in another post you claim they beg and scream during sex.

C'mon at least get your fake story straight before you make another post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol
 
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