Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can't Explain it

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I don't know why I felt compelled to discuss this (I usually keep my personal feelings and buisness to myself.) Anywho for a while now I just haven't had the drive for much. Hitting on broads,dating, etc. Don't get me wrong flirting, playing around, casual sex, hitting on, and talking to women is fun, but in light of that I still feel empty. I feel like I lack drive and the only things I want to do are schoolwork and study.

Maybe I'm rambling here but has anyone else ever just felt like "phuck it"?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think all PUAs go through this phase.

The emptiness comes from realizing that, aside from bragging rights, you have nothing to show for all your sexual exploits. Devote your energy to other passions otherwise you are just living for carnal pleasure...and there is so much more to us than flesh and bone. Each of us has a powerful gift that we can share with the world, if we just take the time to cultivate it.

The Game is not exclusive to women...it's how you handle yourself and your life. So keep playin, but don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remember balance, young Jedi.
 

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Originally posted by NINJA PIMP
I think all PUAs go through this phase.

Each of us has a powerful gift that we can share with the world, if we just take the time to cultivate it.


Remember balance, young Jedi.
I like that line right there, cause one thing I hope to achieve one day is successfully run for national political office, so the people of the places I grew up in can truly have a voice and have someone that can relate to them (having rich liberals and conservaties from across the way visiting the projects and poor rual areas every four years for votes just doesn't cut it for me.)

Anyway not to turn this into another down the drain political thread (please don't, my fellas) I still feel like there is a big chunk of my life that just isn't right or that appears to be missing. How have any of you gotten a handle on that?
 

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Everyone has a void within them. We all have ways of trying to fill it. Some are seducers, others are alcoholics, workaholics or status seekers. In the end any endeavor that solely self-serving will leave you feeling empty. Only when you are able to combine your passions with the helping of your fellow man will you be fulfilled.

Your political intentions arenoble, just make sure you are doing something you love and enjoy.
 
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