Can't escalate kino

[Maxwell]

Chicks always get wierded out or laugh it off and pull away when I try to escalate kino. I usually touch the shoulder/arm first, and they're cool with that, but not when I try to transition from that to touching their hands/hair/neck.

I could just be escalating too fast, (at this point, my mantra is that I'd rather get blown off than LJBF'd for failing to make a move) but I've tried varying the rate of escalation, still no joy.

Maybe its the circumstances; should this kind of kino be done only in private, where she won't feel on the spot?

Or is there a step in between arm/shoulder and hands-hair-neck kino that I'm missing?

Or are there some common mistakes that I might be making that are putting off the girls, behaviour-wise?

 

[omega05]

i think i need to ease up off the kino too cuz some girls will laugh it off at first then later i find out they had a problem with it. i

 

[Jblitz59]

i make the girls feel comfortable. if you ever see the movies where the man will find an excuse to touch a girl like teaching her how to golf, i do that and they never forget that stuff in a good way.

Never look at your body part when you do so because then it doesn't seem natural or 'subconscious'. such as, if you are removing something from a girls face, do you look at your hands?? naww