"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can't escalate kino

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Maxwell

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Chicks always get wierded out or laugh it off and pull away when I try to escalate kino. I usually touch the shoulder/arm first, and they're cool with that, but not when I try to transition from that to touching their hands/hair/neck.

I could just be escalating too fast, (at this point, my mantra is that I'd rather get blown off than LJBF'd for failing to make a move) but I've tried varying the rate of escalation, still no joy.

Maybe its the circumstances; should this kind of kino be done only in private, where she won't feel on the spot?

Or is there a step in between arm/shoulder and hands-hair-neck kino that I'm missing?

Or are there some common mistakes that I might be making that are putting off the girls, behaviour-wise?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think i need to ease up off the kino too cuz some girls will laugh it off at first then later i find out they had a problem with it. i
 
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i make the girls feel comfortable. if you ever see the movies where the man will find an excuse to touch a girl like teaching her how to golf, i do that and they never forget that stuff in a good way.

Never look at your body part when you do so because then it doesn't seem natural or 'subconscious'. such as, if you are removing something from a girls face, do you look at your hands?? naww
 
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