I personaly love clubs. I can go out alone, not tak to one person, and have a blast. I go for the music, for the dancing, and sometimes for the beer. Maybe clubs aren't your thing. But I think most peolple who feel this way are not looking at the club for the right reason. Getting girls is always on my mind. When I go to the club, or to the library (yes I love the library too). But I don't go to the club or the library for the reason of picking up women. Find the music you like. Fnd the club that plays the music you like.
I personally got into clubbing for the house music. I love techno and house. I go, dance from the time the club opens to the time it closes. Eventually you become a familliar face. Even if you suck at dancing, people recognize you and respect you for going there and having a great time. I usually make friiends with the bartenders and the DJs (those are the ones spinning the tracks, not the Don Juans). If you go to a larger club where there is more than one DJ, or an extra sound/lighting guy, go up and ask to check out the system. Tell them your an audio guy and want to see the equipment. If it's one busy DJ, leave him alone. But I usually make friends with these gus. They know I'm the one ALWAYS on the dance floor(If you DJ you know sometimes it only take one person to get out there and start moving and everyone else will follow), they know I am the one they are playing for. I go up, talk to em, request ****, etc.
When you go in there with an attitude like this, everything becomes easier. People recognize your status, let their gard down a little, your having fun no matter what happens, and people notice that too. Your there becasue you want to be, not just to get laid. It will all fall into place from there. But the key is, to change in your head the reason your there. Just say "I'm here to dance." Or whatever. You can't lose. Your confidence will go up.
Loke