"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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can't download weapons of mass seduction.pdf?

dig it

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I cant download it, have been trying for a litle while, since i lost my old copy on my old computer

has anyone else had the same trouble, and if anyone has it, can they send it to me, AND do any admin guys know what has happened?

it was a brilliant series of posts i would like to review inspite of incorportating and having much success with it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i`ve just tried it...

for me it works...

perhaps you should try it again...

let me know if i should send you a copy per email...

all the best, joe
 

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i can't download it either.maybe its my computer like,i dont know.
i,ve heard lots about it but never been able to view it.
maybe its a myth
 

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I can get the pdf., but I can't save it to my computer. Does anyone know how to save it to your computer?
 

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Originally posted by toasttopper1879
i can't download it either.maybe its my computer like,i dont know.
i,ve heard lots about it but never been able to view it.
maybe its a myth
Or maybe you should visit the homepage of the DJB?

I had no problem downloading it by doing the following:

Right click on the word "PDF" right after "Weapons of Mass Seduction by Senor Fingers", then click "Save As". Voila, you've got it on your computer... :rolleyes:

Moved to S&F...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its in thread form also
 
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