can't control it

[BlackDragon]

I can't control my boner. When Im talking to girls, i become stiff. It very unconformable at times. I can just have a friendly conversation with a cute friend and my johnson will pop. Im not small either, their is hardly any room in my briefs for it. Its very embrassing when Im walking and it happens. Freaking pre-*** is annoying too. Having anyone experince this before? If so, were you able to control it? It might be because im a virgin or somthing. I'll be 20 soon, this shouldn't be happing to me.

 

[ToughGuy]

It is natural!!

Though it is natural.
Never let it get revealed with a gal whom you don't have much time in.
And if you are comfortable with any one you can jokingly reveal her, "accusing" her that look what she does to you.

and i hope she would giggle and would say ok i won't meet you then.

make fun of it don't take it serious, and you would be better.

Remember

A women want a guy who doesn't have sex on his mind.

don't give any inclination of sex even after the 10 dates and she would be going crazy what is the problem with this guy.

yours
Tuffy

 

[Dukester]

ya man, random boners happen. get over it, usually happens when we dont want them to.
although looking at a hot girl, or talking to one doesnt cause me to get a woodie!?
just dont think about it-think about the most awful thing you can, somethign so gross taht it causes you to drop wood.

i usally only get a boner when i'm making out, or gettin intimate w/ my g/f (or n e other girl)

 

[thefonz]

there's a buncha things you could do, cranking out before you know your gonna be with a girl could help or cranking more in general (don't get carried away though). MAybe it's just you feel dominated by the woman in the situation, change oyur way of thinking....read through the site for advice on that

 

[damnbugs]

Have you ever heard of avertion thearapy? It is a type of phycological conditioning.

You could wear a elastic band around your wrist and everytime you start getting wood snap yourself on the wrist really hard. Your brain will assotiate the pain with the wood and over time should stop producing the unwanted wood for fear of the assotiated pain.

Good luck and don't wear jogging pants till youget control.