At the first 2-3 dates I have no feelings for the girl and it's so much easier to do things the Don Juan way thus everything goes smoothly. After a week emotions kick in and I still do everything right, but it doesn't come naturally and I have to force myself to do things, so I fvck up. Even if I next her, I'm still sad about it and this bull**** is driving me crazy. Any advices?
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
You don't get credit for playing by female rules. The most famous female rule is: "Only date/focus on one woman at a time and do everything in your power to impress her". This is stupid though. All men who get laid a lot know how stupid it is.
This is a rule even women are not dumb enough to follow.. because in addition to dating multiple men at once.. they will continue to have orbiters (spare tires) flouting around them once they are in a relationship or even married.
Don't be a fool. Only put your emotional energy into women who have proven their devotion to you (most will not). Try to sleep with new women as soon as possible. If she is a slut.. you just saved time. If she is a prude.. you can put her on the shelf while you date and f*ck others.
When you go fishing.. use a net.. not a hook. Think like a king. Have your harem (female orbiters). If all men operated this way.. women would have to step up their game. But most betas are too desperate and thirsty.
This is a rule even women are not dumb enough to follow.. because in addition to dating multiple men at once.. they will continue to have orbiters (spare tires) flouting around them once they are in a relationship or even married.
Don't be a fool. Only put your emotional energy into women who have proven their devotion to you (most will not). Try to sleep with new women as soon as possible. If she is a slut.. you just saved time. If she is a prude.. you can put her on the shelf while you date and f*ck others.
When you go fishing.. use a net.. not a hook. Think like a king. Have your harem (female orbiters). If all men operated this way.. women would have to step up their game. But most betas are too desperate and thirsty.
^^^ That's good advice.
Date multiple women, always. I've been doing it so long now it's no longer even interesting. But I don't have the issue of "developing emotions" for some chick. Or at least they're somewhat muted. Or perhaps they're not but I have them for several women at once so it's no biggie. Not sure.
Look. Right now I have 2 long-term girlfriends. I have one ex I broke up with in December but still bang every few weeks. I have another chick I've gone out with 3 times but didn't bang because.. well.. not sure, I just didn't care. Then there's another ex I do coke with and bang every few weeks even though she's got a boyfriend. Then there's another chick I dated a long time ago but not interested in banging now and we just hang out and shoot the sh*t. Then another chick who comes into town every couple months and sometimes we bang. And another chick who comes through town every couple of years and I bang. And another chick who's into swinging and sometimes invites me to parties where we screw and might swap with some other couple...
.. and it goes on and on. I have tight, medium and loose sexual and non-sexual connections with women from all over town and indeed the world. The concept of having "a girlfriend" or anything even remotely resembling monogamy is now so alien to me that it's inconceivable.
I get that that's completely foreign to guys in their 20s. But I guess my point is... don't worry about what you're doing now because it will evolve as you get older. If you "get emotions" for women right now, don't stress. Just keep dating multiple women and eventually the concept of "falling" for one girl will seem like another life.
Date multiple women, always. I've been doing it so long now it's no longer even interesting. But I don't have the issue of "developing emotions" for some chick. Or at least they're somewhat muted. Or perhaps they're not but I have them for several women at once so it's no biggie. Not sure.
Look. Right now I have 2 long-term girlfriends. I have one ex I broke up with in December but still bang every few weeks. I have another chick I've gone out with 3 times but didn't bang because.. well.. not sure, I just didn't care. Then there's another ex I do coke with and bang every few weeks even though she's got a boyfriend. Then there's another chick I dated a long time ago but not interested in banging now and we just hang out and shoot the sh*t. Then another chick who comes into town every couple months and sometimes we bang. And another chick who comes through town every couple of years and I bang. And another chick who's into swinging and sometimes invites me to parties where we screw and might swap with some other couple...
.. and it goes on and on. I have tight, medium and loose sexual and non-sexual connections with women from all over town and indeed the world. The concept of having "a girlfriend" or anything even remotely resembling monogamy is now so alien to me that it's inconceivable.
I get that that's completely foreign to guys in their 20s. But I guess my point is... don't worry about what you're doing now because it will evolve as you get older. If you "get emotions" for women right now, don't stress. Just keep dating multiple women and eventually the concept of "falling" for one girl will seem like another life.
When you focus all your attention on one woman instead several you get weak. when you date multiply woman and fvck them you don't get confused. this is the most common mistakes man do. never put all your eggs in one basket or better say your balls 
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