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Okay,

There is this waitress at this bar that I go to 2 or so times a week... She is pretty cute, not georgous, but very cute. Around 2 months ago, me and my two friends came up there and she waited on us. She seemed very nice and she was one of thoose people who had a glowing personality. Something definatly turned me on about her. So when we get up to leave, I leave her a tip and my business card, something I do everywhere I go because you never know who that person might know if you get what I mean.

The next night, a saturday, me and one of the friends I was with decided to go up there to grab a bite to eat before we go out to the club, and she happened to wait on our tables again. I was going to talk to her this time, but I happened to see a ring on her wedding finger. So i start up a convo with her, and it turns out she is 22, actually 23 now and she has been married for 5 years.


So over the next 2 months I come up there with my friends, we shoot pool, eat, hang out, but as time goes on, she starts to get more and more friendlier. Her flirting got so bad friday night that even my friends noticed.

So fast forward to Saturday night. I threw a party outside my apartment complex for the Arkansas v. Texas game (I am so pissed off by that game BTW); it was about 150-200 people there. I gave away free beer and pizza, it was pretty nice. So after around 8 beers and 2 apple martinis, me and my best friend decide to clean up the mess and go shoot pool at the bar, which happens to be a mintue and a half drive from my apartment. We get up there and this girl was there, which I wasn't suprised by, another girl I was actually talking to who flaked out on me was there as well. So it's me and this girl talking with my friend talking to the girl that flaked out on me, and they decide that they want to get drinks after work. I, being the smart person that I am, insist that they come to my place, I have a mini bar. They say great that's fine.

Now here is where it gets interesting... My friend, blind to the fact that this other chick was digging him, decided he was ready to go home. I told him that the girl actually liked him and he got mad that he left (dumbass). So I am thinking it's me and 2 girls. Well they both know me and I am not try ing to do anythign with either anyway, I mean, the chick I think is cute is MARRIED right?

So I get a call around 2:15ish, from the girl, because I gave her my number to call to get directions to my house and she says the other girl, the one who flaked out on me, went home because her BF didn't want her to go. We made fun of her and then she asked "Can I still come by myself?". Kinda stunned, I said sure, and I went back up there to let her follow me to my house, since I live a mintue from the bar anyway.

So after 2 glasses of rum and coke we are sitting on the floor, taking an IQ test online to see who is smarter. Somehow, and I really do mean somehow, around 15 mintues later I am rubbing her back with message oil. 15 mitues after that I am kissing her neck, and needless to say what happened 15 mitues after that.

So i walk her down to the car and give her a hug goodnight afterwards, thinking that I wouldn't talk to her like that again, you know most married women get antsy once they do something that they should regret. Not this chick. I get a call the next day, asking could she come BACK over. I actually had another girl over, so I told her I had company, but I got into an arguement with the girl over and kicked her out.

So I call this girl back and tell her I am free, so she shows up around 11pm (how she gets all this free time from her husband I don't know) and we start watching porn for some odd reason or another. After around 20 mintues she gets on top of me, takes off my shirt and tells me to "**** her". Being that I have always been a person to follow directions, I did.

Now she leaves and I am thinking... the oddest thing to me is, I don't feel bad whatsoever. I think it's because I really didn't activaly persue her, that I just took what was literaly available at the time.

The only thing that worries me, is that I think I might have laid it on her too good. She called me this morning, on my way to work because she wanted to "hear my voice"...yeah.
 

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I'd say just go with it... and enjoy it,.

You aren't doing anything wrong. She is, IMO.

She has more than initiated what is happening, so of course you don't feel guilty. My guess is she got married too young, and is now only realizing it. They are obviously having some problems, and she needs some excitment. (They probably never have sex, anymore, either)

The Bad Ass Canadian
 

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trust me when I say I am having fun... she is actually a cool cat and the sex isn't half bad.
 

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Good for you- if her hubby was cutting the grass properly you wouldn't have to!

Just keep it sexual- no dinners or romantic stuff and try not to mention her other half- let her time with you be fufilling and worry free.
 

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she mentioed that her husband doesn't like to go down on her... I gave her a spit shine job that was so good she almost feel asleep aftwerwards, which was pretty funny.

Thanks for the advice, and thanks for confirming that I am not an ******* for sleeping with a married women, even if she did literarly jump my bones.
 

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Good work done,
but i don't understand why you feel guilty
women are more ****ing around these days.
Just purely enjoy it buddy

She is not caring her husband at all, why should u be worried.
thank god for the hot gift!!

:)
 
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Maybe this ho isn't married - she just wears a ring to select her men.

If she is married then expect some drama when one day in a fit of anger she yells out your name to her husband and tells him how good you treat her and that you are a back-breaker!

Married hos are tricky and the most dangerous of all hos - expect a lot of drama!

Damn, those mini-bars work wonders, I have to get one!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Maybe this ho isn't married - she just wears a ring to select her men.

If she is married then expect some drama when one day in a fit of anger she yells out your name to her husband and tells him how good you treat her and that you are a back-breaker!

Married hos are tricky and the most dangerous of all hos - expect a lot of drama!

Damn, those mini-bars work wonders, I have to get one!
Naw, she's married, I even saw her husband one day. She definatly lives with him, and they have 2 kids.

"If she is married then expect some drama when one day in a fit of anger she yells out your name to her husband and tells him how good you treat her and that you are a back-breaker!"

I think that is why I thought I should feel bad; because I am doing osmething that more than not if I keep up will bring more and more drama. For instance, she has called me 2 times already today, like we are dating or something... I mean, we have sex, and you are married.
 
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You better set her straight right now that she is just a sex toy and nothing else. She is calling you way too much and this (her hoing) is going to be quite obvious to everyone including her husband - if he doesn't already know!!

She is acting with the discretion of a g/f and not a married woman!
 

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Don't hate on backbreaker for doing this, she offered herself and he took advantage. It's not his fault she's a ho.

It's sh!t like this that's the reason I will never marry. You just can't trust b!tches. 5 years, 2 kids, it all means nothing. Hos will be hos.

I've had oppurtunities to hook up with married women, always declined them. Not because I think it's wrong for me to take advantage of her or because I'm a homewrecker, but because they disgust me, plain and simple.
 

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I can see where you are coming from, but I honestly, honestly don't think she is a hoe. She is very smart, is in law school, and is very hard working and from what I can gather is a pretty self grounded person... I just think she married at too young of an age and is really starting to wonder what else is out there.

Now, I am not defending her by any means; I really wouldn't care if I never saw her again, and she does have hoish tendancies, but I don't think she is necessarly a hoe; just a confused young woman, that Iw ill be taking advantage of :)
 

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You don't think she's a HO?

Get a fvcking clue.

What would you call her? a pious woman.

It's statements like that - blind men - that enable ho's like this to leave one guy for another.

"But honestly - she's not a ho. She's great - she's married and has 2 kids and fvcks around of her man - calls me and fvcks me good every night she can get to my place - but really she's not a Ho"


If she's not a HO - then I'm a Virgin.


Open your eyes dude.
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
You don't think she's a HO?

Get a fvcking clue.

What would you call her? a pious woman.

It's statements like that - blind men - that enable ho's like this to leave one guy for another.

"But honestly - she's not a ho. She's great - she's married and has 2 kids and fvcks around of her man - calls me and fvcks me good every night she can get to my place - but really she's not a Ho"


If she's not a HO - then I'm a Virgin.


Open your eyes dude.
First of all, do I agree with what she is doing? No. I know it's wrong, but what I am saying is that while she is a hoe, she is a hoe for a reason, and that is becuase of the mistake she made by getting married at such a young age.

It's all moot anyway, I just want to **** and I am assuming that's what she wants to.
 

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She's a whore. If you think otherwise than you care about her more than you'll admit.
 

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Backbreaker I agree and disagree. First of all, I know you're just f*cking her and don't plan anything more, so I'm not trying to condescend you or anything.

Did she make a mistake by marrying young? Yes Giant mistake, she's a clueless. But lets face it, everyone makes mistakes, I do, you do, couples that have been married for 50 years do. What determines a person's character is how we deal with our mistakes, and whether we accept responsability for them.

This girl has 2 kids man, and she's out at another guy's house at 2:15 am man. This is not a misunderstood girl, this is a ho. Real women are mothers to their kids, hos ignore them.

Now, a real woman would not even think of cheating on her husband, only a ho would. But lets say that this girl is in a sh!tty marriage, and that she is realizing that it was a mistake marrying so young. A real woman would at least get a divorce before going out and f*cking other guys. This girl isn't doing that. She's out, opening her legs for you, while her husband is sitting at home clueless as to what's happening. Real women don't do this, only hos do.
 
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Damn, I think DJ MindOverMatter used the word 'Ho' in a post more than I have. I must be slipping!:D

Backbreaker, don't confuse intelligence, personality, and status with hoish behavior and conduct!! A hor is what a hor does!! Having sex with her husband is being a wife, having sex with a guy who iis not her husband then she is a ho!!!

Please, never rationalize wrongdoing and hoish acts - as soon as you do then you become blinded to the reality of things and your fall is imminent!!

How about if she was your wife - would you still make excuses for her behavior??

"Thats ok baby, I understand you married young - it's not your fault that you are hoing"" :rolleyes:
 

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ask yourself this very important question :

what do you think her husband will do WHEN he finds out ?

i know b*tches and alot of them WANT to get caught.

THEY WANT DRAMA !

THEY LOVE IT !

will he go get his gun out the shed, go to your house kick in the door and blow your fu**ing brains out ?

i have never been married.

but if my wife cheated on me the above is what i would do or if i could see clear enough past the rage and pain inside i would do it more subtle leaving no trace.

eg. i come up behind him in a car park at night or wherever hit him on the back on the head with a solid object. put his unconscious body into the boot of my car. bind his hands and feet with those plastic garbage bag ties that the soldiers in iraq use to tie prisoners up with ( available at any hardware store ) gag him.

drive to my friends farm take him out to the back shed and torture him for 3 days if he stayed alive that long.

take his now broken body to my friends fishing trauler, go out to sea, cut his body up and let the sharks and fish have some lunch.

30,000 people go missing each year in Australia

makes you wonder where they all are.

i am going to stop fu**ing b*tches that have BF's as i don't need the drama. i would NEVER touch a married woman EVER. simply because i KNOW if i was married i would do the above. if someone fu**ed my gf i would just NEXT her.

a married woman is PRIVATE PROPERTY.....DO NOT ENTER.....TRESPASSERS WILL BE SHOT....

you see those signs up on farms and such ?





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It matters not what the reason is - she's still a ho.

By the way I hope you used protection.

I wonder how many guys she's fvcking right now.
 
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