"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can your social media image put a neg on your real life game ?

Bingo-Player

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am very active on social media mainly twitter ( cant stand facebook) a maijority of my interactions are with women ( most of whom i do actually know in real life) some of these interactions are fairly flirty and ive never taken any shame in putting whatever the hell i want on there to a point

However i have been finding lately that plates ive been spinning in real life really dont seem to like this sort of thing at all

infact I’m pretty confident that one plate broke itself over chirstmas purley because she didn’t like what i was putting on there and who i was interacting with

i hadn’t really thought into this before it never seemed to be much of a problem however this last month or 2 i think plates have been getting majorly put off through the “player” persona my twitter is perhaps projecting

maybe ive got it all wrong but im beginning to wonder if i should tone down on my interactions with women on there

thoughts please ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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social media can help or hinder you, if you want lots of girls and you have great social proof you will be a slayer, lots of pics, cool pics, lots of women, fun tiems etc.
if you want an ltr or something more exclusive, that kind of profile will kill it. you will be too much of a challenge.
social media gives others tremendous ability to pry and spy on you and your life, it also opens doors to even deeper prying, its great for women and insecure people, not to mention the narccissists!

if you are getting lots of women, why worry? but then, the past does often pop up to haunt us and social media isnt going anywhere, and the past is there to drag back up with the click of a mouse
 

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yea i guess its kinda like a double ended sword

im not after a LTR yet but I'm even having issues keeping girls around after I've banged them even if i want them to stay in my life

im assuming its because of this image i have created for myself

it don't matter because I'm getting PU**AY but eventually Ive realised I'm going to have to change that image drastically when I'm ready for a LTR
 
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