"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can your social media image put a neg on your real life game ?

Bingo-Player

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am very active on social media mainly twitter ( cant stand facebook) a maijority of my interactions are with women ( most of whom i do actually know in real life) some of these interactions are fairly flirty and ive never taken any shame in putting whatever the hell i want on there to a point

However i have been finding lately that plates ive been spinning in real life really dont seem to like this sort of thing at all

infact I’m pretty confident that one plate broke itself over chirstmas purley because she didn’t like what i was putting on there and who i was interacting with

i hadn’t really thought into this before it never seemed to be much of a problem however this last month or 2 i think plates have been getting majorly put off through the “player” persona my twitter is perhaps projecting

maybe ive got it all wrong but im beginning to wonder if i should tone down on my interactions with women on there

thoughts please ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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social media can help or hinder you, if you want lots of girls and you have great social proof you will be a slayer, lots of pics, cool pics, lots of women, fun tiems etc.
if you want an ltr or something more exclusive, that kind of profile will kill it. you will be too much of a challenge.
social media gives others tremendous ability to pry and spy on you and your life, it also opens doors to even deeper prying, its great for women and insecure people, not to mention the narccissists!

if you are getting lots of women, why worry? but then, the past does often pop up to haunt us and social media isnt going anywhere, and the past is there to drag back up with the click of a mouse
 

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yea i guess its kinda like a double ended sword

im not after a LTR yet but I'm even having issues keeping girls around after I've banged them even if i want them to stay in my life

im assuming its because of this image i have created for myself

it don't matter because I'm getting PU**AY but eventually Ive realised I'm going to have to change that image drastically when I'm ready for a LTR
 
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