"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you transition from AFC to DJ in a relationship?

R

Rubato

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AFC's do get girls every now and then.

If you realize that as a DJ when interacting with a girl, you have regressed in to AFC behavior, and developed whatever sort of relationship you have with the girl around AFC behavior patterns, is it possible to re-frame the interaction as DJ successfully?

If so, how do you go about doing this? An abrupt change in behavior, attributed to some dramatic spiritual experience? Or what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Domo_Arigatoo

Don Juan
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Yes, this is possible to do, my friend did it shortly after visiting this website.

All you have to do is change yourself, be unreactive to her bullshyt and learn self-respect. That's pretty much it.
 
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