"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can you say he jumped on the first girl that showed interest?

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My friend, "A" is 19 almost 20 and the girl in question is 16. At some point a friend of his "B" (same age, but 9 months younger) was interested in her (before he was) and A kept telling B how she was too young for him, not mature enough, blablabla. Anyways time went by, B didn't end up with her, and now, about a month ago the girl started showing interest in A and all of a sudden he becomes interested in her EVEN THOUGH he kept saying how she was too young and it wasn't proper to date at such age and blablabla. Now they are dating, but I get the impression that A simply jumped on her because she was interested in him and showing him signs of affection, and not because he is legitimately interested in her. Could I be wrong? I hope I am :(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL, damn man you need to find a new quality friend.

That guy manipulated you so he could get what you wanted.

That too young stuff is always b.s.

The younger the better as long as she's legal.

Thats pretty much every guy's belief despite whatever b.s someone might say to the contrary.
 
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nope... I can't stand that girl. I just don't want him to settle for this girl only because he feels that's all he can get. He is my best friend after all I don't want him to be eventually miserable -_-
 
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ok I don't know why I even have to, but I'll clear things out and resume this:

I don't care at all about that girl, never did, never will. I can't even stand her
No I'm not either A or B, that's just pathetic to lie over an internet forum
I want to know if it's possible he ended up settling with her because he could've thought he couldn't get better or not

Simple, no?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eh, I don't mean to sound cynical but its usually true that at the age you guys are at its just about sex.

Don't worry the relationship will eventually crash and burn.

As for the question...

He's just taking whats available.

When something else comes along thats better he will trade up.

Thats what I think.

He's settling for a chance at sex but will move on as soon as another chick actually captivates him in both mind and body.
 
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