"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can you "RUN OUT" of women to approach

KneghtRyder

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I live in a somewhat dense area, not like a city, but not suburban either. I've only approach very few women upto now, less than 10.

there are obviously a finite amount of girls in this area of New York though its a large number.

This site preaches "sarging" and "mass approaching" alot of women. what if you've gone through all of them and approached them all, but haven't gotten any?

In other words, you've RUN OUT of women to approach.....what would your situation be, would you say **** it so I didn't get a girls move on...

I guess this is an advocacy of when you go out and approach, you should always be at your best....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pvf94

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I can relate...I live in a very small town...and I dont have a car to go to other places...and its to cold to walk or bike =P
 

vorbis

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dude you're thinking way too seriously about it. Pick say one town over and sarge the mall there if you're worried about this. Day game is tougher than people here say it is.Work on your night game as well.
 

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Yes you can run out. Once youve hit the 3 billion mark, just start over, theyll have forgotten you by then im sure!
 

pvf94

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Charm said:
Yes you can run out. Once youve hit the 3 billion mark, just start over, theyll have forgotten you by then im sure!
:crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thomas94305

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For starters, there's lots of things you can still do given a small amount of women. I doubt there are only 10 women in your area. Perhaps you've only bumped into 10 you find attractive, and approachable.

Look at any woman as an opportunity to work your skills. Women think more alike than different. Focus on getting in depth conversations with new women. She can be young, old, HB, UG, (since you're a newbie, HB = hot babe, UG = ugly girl) etc. That's transferrable to that HB that you eventually see. Work on being more sociable with guys around. You can talk with them about ideas where to meet women. If a woman doesn't interest you for a relationship, try making friends out of her. You can go sarging with the guys. Sometimes the gals will give you access to other women. These are valuable skills that will take energy to develop. Etc..

Granted, we all want a target rich environment. But, be creative about how you can grow.
 

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Brak86 said:
that....will NEVER happen. I dont even feel like i should explain this. Even if you hypothetically approached 1 million women , first of all, there will continuously be new women as the younger ones get older, and the other ones you already approached will forget you after a year. Plus, if you've approached THAT many women, I'm sure you would have gotten so much poonani.
true. u can never run out of women to approach. plus if u approach that many, there's bond to be one that likes u so much that u wouldnt need to approach anymore, i.e long term relationship, but it depends on wat ur after. if u sex that many women, than ur bond to get an STD and die, so then u wouldnt have to approach anymore,lol.
 

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Don't criticize this guy....maybe he has ****ed over a million women, we really just don't know.
 

Ace of Flames

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How many billions of people live on this planet? Cut that in half and you have a good estimate of the number of women you'd have to approach in order to 'run out'. Honestly, it just won't happen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The area i live in is terrible. I live near a naval base in the middle of no where. It's full of engineers (male) and military (male).

Most women here are not attractive. The downside is that 6s and 7s around here act like they are 8s, 9s and 10s due to the terrible male:female ratio.

It's really pretty sad. There's a SEVERE lack of 22-30 year old women There's a liberal arts college nearby full of 18-22 year olds but it's not really that big and i'm almost 27 so that's getting kind of young and they tend to keep their social circles to the campus

There are a number of pretty teenage girls. Sometimes i can go to a restaurant and get to see a few pretty waitresses but come on they're 16 because their daddy brought them here so he can work on base and then when she graduates high school she goes away to college, graduates college, then moves away to the city.... or is pregnant by 18 (A TON of single mothers here.. and no not milfs).

So it's really pretty depressing. Luckily i found one rare one i dated for a year (have lived here 2.5 years now) but now i'm almost in panic mode looking around for one that's even worth talking to let alone able to be succesful when there are 500 other dudes all showering her with excessive attention.

I'm pretty close to quitting my job and moving. Maybe after winter.
 

vorbis

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I'd move man, remember work to live not live to work
 

diablo

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When you actually do literally run out of women to approach, it becomes a problem. Otherwise you're just theorizing about something that hasn't happened, which is counterproductive. I wouldn't worry about it until it takes place - which if you've only approached 10 girls, probably won't be anytime soon.
 

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You can never run out, because you can always reapproach those same girls you've approached before. If you ever realize you never get rejected its just the approach that you took got rejected. There are many girls I've tried to approach back in my AFC days and I've seen them during the time I was in this community and I've actually got great reactions. The girls never really remember unless you really stood out and had a great time with them. (Maybe kissed, almost laid, or someone who flaked on you) If its like that you still can reapproach and it will still actually be good. So you can never really run out.

Even when I see people from my Junior high that I used to talk to. Not one of them has noticed me yet.
 
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