Can You Really Blame Woman?

[TenOfSpades]

Woman get hit on by guys all the time. They are bound to find some of these guys sexually attractive. Sex is pleasureful even for a woman if you may believe something as crazy as that. So how can you blame them for having all these sex options being tossed at them?

If it were reverse. Girls approached guys all the time. Would we fault guys for sleeping with as many girls that keep coming their way? Nope we wouldn't. We would call it a victory. Its as if we are jealous that woman are able to get pounded whenever they want. I know I wish I had it on command. They do have it on command and take it when they want it. Dream scenario.

Relationships are the SAME. If you were in a relationship with a girl and a bunch of girls kept trying to get with you, some better then your current girlfriend, would it not be hard to resist cheating or even leaving her? I know I would wanna keep upgrading if it was work free, being thrown at me.

I am not trying to put woman into this god status. What I am trying to get at is that as much as you think its a gender difference, it really isn't. If we as guys were able to do all this stuff, we would. Complaining about it on this forum isnt going to change anything. We need to adapt to it.

It reminds me of the "They took our jobs" folk in South Park. It is amazing satire. Low skill jobs being moved away to other countries for lower wage. The company is about making money, smart move. Instead of these guys trying to better themselves, find better work, they complain. Think they are entitled to this job. Instead of moaning about it, hoping it will come back, they need to adapt.

All we can do in this environment is become the best we can be and be indifferent. Become the best you can, you will get women. Become indifferent so if and when they do take advantage of this favourable position in this environment, you can trudge forward realizing all things come to an end. Its time to stop taking women and relationships serious in these modern times.

 

[iamnobody]

Woman get hit on by guys all the time.

True, but 9 out of 10 times, the guys are chumps.

They are bound to find some of these guys sexually attractive.

yes, the DJ or the DJ wannabe. The wannabe will be sniffed out sooner rather than later though.

So how can you blame them for having all these sex options being tossed at them?

Once you make yourself the best option there is, chicks will flock. Why should I bother blaming them when I can develop a better self?

Its time to stop taking women and relationships serious in these modern times.

I agree 100%.

 

[TenOfSpades]

Once you make yourself the best option there is, chicks will flock. Why should I bother blaming them when I can develop a better self?
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Thats what I am getting at. We have to work to get on an average girls level. We care because most guys don't have endless amounts tossed at them, so that one may be the only one for who knows how long.

Its not until we are the best we can be we will be at the level a woman is at.

 

[d!ckmojo]

Yes, we should blame women. But we should single out the specific women who are to blame: that would be Germaine Greer, Betty Friedman, Simone de Beauvoir et al.

We can't blame your average, everyday women in this day and age for just going along with the societal flow, but we SHOULD blame the women who perverted our society in the first place with their "feminism" poison.

But, this type of societal situation has happened before. It prevailed in the latter stages of the Roman Empire, and it was the immediate cause that ushered in 1000 years of the Dark Ages, so I mean, these feminists will end up having been responsible for a lot of misery and tragedy, and I think they should be tried in a court and found guilty of perverting the natural order, and be sentenced to death.

 

[Brosy]

I think we should be thankful, I imagine if all the hb3's I met started trying to flirt with me I'd eventually get pretty tired and rude about it too.

It's the sayings like "no girl is out of your league" crap that deludes these chumps who hit on anything that moves. Sorry but there is a point where you are just not attractive enough to interest girls out of your league, know your limits and avoid being an irritating tw@t.

 

[TenOfSpades]

Yes, we should blame women. But we should single out the specific women who are to blame: that would be Germaine Greer, Betty Friedman, Simone de Beauvoir et al.

We can't blame your average, everyday women in this day and age for just going along with the societal flow, but we SHOULD blame the women who perverted our society in the first place with their "feminism" poison.

But, this type of societal situation has happened before. It prevailed in the latter stages of the Roman Empire, and it was the immediate cause that ushered in 1000 years of the Dark Ages, so I mean, these feminists will end up having been responsible for a lot of misery and tragedy, and I think they should be tried in a court and found guilty of perverting the natural order, and be sentenced to death.

I am not talking about the feminist movement. I am not talking about girls looking for powers and freedoms. I am talking about the sexual tendencies. I do not believe that womans control over the sexual economy is what dictates the outcome of this feminist movement, theres more to the story. Are you going to blame Cleopatra for finding her advantage and using it? Its just childish. Learn to combat their advantage and find your own. The cries on this forum just show men as a society have threw their arms in the air and gave up.

 

[Brosy]

The cries on this forum just show men as a society have threw their arms in the air and gave up.

To me the cries look like men who shot above their league and then proceed to believe that Megan Fox will eventually change her mind and go with the gimpy looking dude because he has a car that's a robot.

Society has a lot to answer for, Big Bang Theory, are you f!cking serious? It... doesn't...happen.

 

[d!ckmojo]

For your info Brosy, I'm 6'4 tall, athletically muscled and toned, and frequently complimented on the handsomeness of my features.

Not a lot of women, at least in terms of physical attractiveness, would be "out of my league".

EDIT: and I mean, don't get me wrong, I get a lot of Pvsstang~

But I am aware of guys less physically appealing to women, I mean short guys, shorter than average, ugly guys (well, guys that look ugly to me in my opinion, any way), guys in worse shape than me, who do better with girls, so there's something else at play here.

Its not all just a function of "looks" and "leagues".

 

[TenOfSpades]

I have no idea what hes going on about leagues and what not, that wasn't the purpose.

 

[Brosy]

For your info Brosy, I'm 6'4 tall, athletically muscled and toned, and frequently complimented on the handsomeness of my features.

Not a lot of women, at least in terms of physical attractiveness, would be "out of my league".

Good for you mate! You also know your limits though because even you said "not a lot of women".

It's the lads who seem to think they can get ANY woman regardless of their own looks need to manage their expectations.

Edit: TenOfSpades I'm explaining the reason for their "advantage" as you put it, society encourages men to try their luck with anything that moves regardless of how realistic their chances are.

 

[cof33]

the mind is so powerful that its almost impossible to convince anyone who doesnt believe in it so dont waste your time

 

[d!ckmojo]

Yeah. I think a lot can be said for good old fashioned charisma, it is more powerful for pulling women than "looks" or "leagues" or whatever.

Can charisma be learned? I sort of hope yes, for all our sakes. Brosy I suppose thinks no, so, for him, all of this DJ/PUA stuff is a waste of time.