"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can you mess with a girl that has fugly feet?

thewarrior

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Hammer toes, crusty/ashy, bunions/corns/callouses, big flat feet... etc

My definition of a hot girl is:

a) Kick-ass personality
b) Cute face/body
c) Nice feet

And I'm not into real loud nail polish. I prefer no nail polish or colors like soft pink, french, tan, or white.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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I could care less about feet, as long as they don't smell, or she got crusty skin that will rub against mine then I don't really care about feet.

To me its:

1) She has to be feminine

2) really nice face, big eyes, full lips, long hair

3) sexy body, hourglass figure, big breasts nice tight ass and long legs.

4) great personality and is kind to others as opposed to the selfish self serving Hollywood copycat b1tches carrying a big ass purses around with the huge shades and constant pissed look on their faces as they exit starbucks carrying some bullsh1t crapachino shake you usually meet now a days.

You got a foot fetish or something? I could never understand that but hey whatever floats your boat.
 

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This thread reminds me of this. If you're looking for total 100% physical perfection in a woman,maybe you need to date a mannequin.
 

Alphamale1821

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ya it would have to be a hit or miss for me. Because honestly pretty sexy feet do a play a part of a women attraction for me. Generally if a women takes care of her feet then she takes care of other "parts"

Then again i have a foot fetish so i absolutely prefer a women with beautiful or at least sexy feminine feet. I mean hell it's just a turn off when a women has some gigantic stone women feet. For me feet is a sign of femininsm and when a women has a cute face or body(prefarbly both) on top of cute feet it makes her "more attractive to me" As opposed to the SUPER HOT ***** with busty feet and an ok personality.

IT's all about quality because every girl is different. LOL as silly as it may sound looks(face and body) personality/sexuality(how do we vibe) and feet(toe sucking, massage) all play a major part in what women i choose to give myself too.

Bottom line i just prefer nice looking girl(face and body) with a kickass personality and sexy feet. Thats really not being choosy because ironically enough most of the gorgeous women i run into on campus generally have the looks and the feet. Personality is usually the toss up.
 

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i had a summer job many years ago working in women's shoes at filenes. i worked on commission. pay was great! anyway, ever since then i developed a complex. for example, i like when they stick their feet in my face sometimes when we are being intimate.

with that being said: if she has bad looking feet our interactions from a relationship (anything long term) perspective are not going anywhere. its just the way it is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whereas some guys will refer to themselves as a t!t or an a$$ man, I am an "everything" man. That includes feet. Women's feet are a turn on when they are cute and feminine, but if she's got funky feet it ain't gonna fly (too far beyond a bj anyway).
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Feet do not matter. Unless, you have some kind of foot fetish... :rolleyes: Its about who the girl is.
 

Alle_Gory

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Feet do not matter. Unless, you have some kind of foot fetish... :rolleyes: Its about who the girl is.
Just how fugly are we talking about here?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yea i def def feel you OP...i dont care how bad the b!tch is...if her feet is garbage i aint even lookin at her..at all...but most hot chicks i encounter have they feet game on point...
 

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I don't have a foot fetish, I just like pretty feet. If a guy likes boobs, does he have a boob fetish? Some women have really ugly feet and they wear shoes that show them off and it makes me wanna puke.
 

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thewarrior said:
I don't have a foot fetish, I just like pretty feet. If a guy likes boobs, does he have a boob fetish? Some women have really ugly feet and they wear shoes that show them off and it makes me wanna puke.
it's just your perference. Personally I don't spend a lot of time looking at her feet so not as much a issue with me. But I do agree that people shouldn't highlight one of their bad attributes (ie. showing off bad feet, that's why I don't wear sandals).
 
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